Nov. 23, 2024

Episode #159: The Great Omission Part 2 W/Taylor Smith

Episode #159: The Great Omission Part 2 W/Taylor Smith
Episode #159: The Great Omission Part 2 W/Taylor Smith
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Episode #159: The Great Omission Part 2 W/Taylor Smith

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This week on the podcast Taylor Smith and I finish our conversation about the book The Great Omission which was wrote by a sectarian Christian advocating for plural marriage and boy do we cover a lot of ground in our conversation. We talk about how and why monogamy became the norm in Christianity, Plural Marriage in early Protestantism, Population Collapse and the role it played in the Ukrainian/Russian war and it becoming a problem here in the West, the definition of Patriarchy and what it really is, The omission of Plural Marriage in the King James Bible, the implications for living Plural Marriage today.

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This week on the podcast, Taylor
Smith and I finish our

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conversation about the book The
Great Omission, which was

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written by a sectarian Christian
advocating for plural marriage.

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And boy oh boy, do we cover a
lot of ground in our

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conversation.
We talk about how and why

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monogamy became the norm in
Christianity, plural marriage

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and early Protestantism,
population collapse and the role

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it played in the Ukrainian
Russian war and it becoming a

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problem here in the West, The
definition of patriarchy and

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what it really is, the omission
of plural marriage in the King

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James Version of the Bible, the
implications for living plural

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marriage today, and much, much
more.

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Yeah, been a while not.
Really.

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Yeah.
Yeah, Not really, but yeah, no,

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Too long.
Too long, Yeah.

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So where'd we where'd we leave
off last time?

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Do you remember?
Yeah, so we've been discussing

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the Great Omission by Clyde
Pilkington and it's basically a

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non Mormon's biblical defense
for polygamy.

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And and he uses kind of rational
arguments and just talking about

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the New Testament and how
basically the translational

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decisions that were made, I
believe intentionally kind of

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obfuscate the, you know, cloud
the proper understanding and

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interpretation of a lot of these
things.

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So next, I think we're going to
talk about the just moving along

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into chapter 6, the religious
systems destruction of the

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biblical family.
We kind of we kind of

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foreshadowed a little bit on of
that.

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Is there anything that you want
to maybe recap or or?

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Yeah, I do.
You remember the part that we

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talked about where you talked
about the Jews ran into this

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problem when when the the edict
came down about.

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Rabbi Gershom.
Yeah.

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Can we can we go over that again
and and get what the solution

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was 'cause that was kind of
gurgly in that first episode, so

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I kind of had to splice it out
of there.

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So maybe, maybe we can.
We can.

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Recap that.
Yeah, you bet.

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So that comes from an article
ontime.com/datanomics.

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It, it analyzes 2 kind of
religiously very conservative

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communities, Hasidic Judaism and
the LDS Church.

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And it looks at how they both
have this basically dating

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crisis of, of where there are
too many women and not enough

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men to provide spouses for, for
these, for, for the marriages.

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And so basically the, the
Mormons have handled it well,

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quote UN quote, handled it by
basically glorifying

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spinsterhood and just saying,
hey, you can still contribute to

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the to the work of God, the
church, the Kingdom, if you are

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single and and it's OK to just
basically be single in eternity.

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And the challenge with that is
of course that, yeah, that may

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be, there may be truth to that.
Like, yeah, I'm not saying that

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you have to be married to be
able to contribute to God's

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Kingdom and, and his work and
all that stuff, but marriage is

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an integral part of the of the
plan.

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And you know, certainly you
can't be exalted without

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marriage.
And the other thing is that

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people that just sincerely
desire to be mothers and wives

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are being deprived through no
fault of their own.

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And and so that's been the LDS
kind of solution, quote UN

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quote.
But the Hasidic Jews are kind of

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unique because they're also a
very religiously conservative.

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And by conservative, I'm not
just talking about like

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political or whatnot.
I'm talking, you know, they have

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they, they value large families,
They value family and being

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married and having a lot of
children.

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And they also have, I guess,
lack of a better word, they,

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they just desire to marry within
the group there.

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I think there's a term for that.
I'm just blanking on it.

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But like, they, they want
people, they want Hasidic Jews

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to marry other Hasidic Jews
that, you know, marry.

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They don't want to marry outside
of the covenant, so to speak.

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And so, and so the way that
they've handled it is

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matchmakers.
And I actually wrote a blog

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post.
So the guy, how much of this did

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you end up having to cut out?
Do you want to kind of go over

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everything that we covered last
time around or?

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No, just basically how the Jews
fixed it, right?

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Because.
Because I found that kind of

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fascinating, but it was
something that couldn't

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translate real well.
Gotcha.

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So, so basically the way that
they chose to handle it in and

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in that way is they have
matchmakers and the matchmakers

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tell, you know, arrange the
marriages.

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And so, you know, let's say
you're a 22 year old young lady

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who desires to be married and
there's a 26 year old young man

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who desires to be married.
They ship, they generally won't

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pair people of a different age
with each other because in a, in

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a conservative close group that
marries amongst themselves and

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not outside of the group, it's
very rare or I don't even know

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if it's rare.
It's just basically it's, it's

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inevitable that there will be
women.

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There's, there's going to be a
positive birth rate.

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So there will be more, you know,
10 year olds than 20 year olds,

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more 20 year olds than 30 year
olds as the birth rate is

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positive.
If you're valuing families and

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if you're supposed to marry
within the group, when you allow

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free choices to be made, then
just biologically more women

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choose men on average about four
years older than them and meant

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on average tend to select as
marriage partners women that are

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four years younger.
And that's kind of obvious for

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natural, just biological
reasons.

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Younger women are going to be
more likely to be able to bear

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healthy children.
Older men are going to be more

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likely to be able to take care
of a woman and protect a family.

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And so those are just kind of
the natural reactions.

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But, but if you're trying to
control this and you, you have a

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positive birth rate and you have
this kind of inevitable

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situation where there are there,
if you allow free marriage

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choices to be made, there will
be a surplus of women who just

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kind of miss out.
And, you know, and because let's

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be honest, not all men, there
are fewer men who desire

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marriage and the
responsibilities of life than

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women, right?
And so and so there's just a

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leftover surplus of women who
are deprived if in a, in a

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forced monogamy situation.
So, so basically that's, that's

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it.
The Hasidic Jews, they took away

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the choice.
You know marriage decisions are

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by arrangement rather than by
choice for Hasidic Jews.

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Which?
Yeah, yeah.

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And it's different from marriage
in the, you know, the, in the,

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in the sense that Mormons would
use that.

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So I'm, I'm not saying it's
necessary.

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It's, it's working for them.
You know, they still have

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families and they have
successful marriages.

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Their divorce rates are not even
anything close to what the, you

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know, the rest of even Mormons
divorce rates are So, so it's,

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it's working for them, but it
takes away agency, which whose

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plan is that, right?
That's just not ideal, but it is

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what it is, so.
You know, and the birth rate is

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like, OK, I won't, I don't make
many predictions on, on this

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sort of thing, but I'll, I'll
make one here.

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Not a prophecy, just a
prediction.

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You, you know, more like a Vegas
style prediction than a than

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than than anything like
property.

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Yeah, just a good guess.
I think within the next four to

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five years, we're going to start
encountering a crisis about our,

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you know, population collapse.
There was a fascinating article

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that came out about Russia and
its incursion into Ukraine, and

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there's a lot of people now
saying that that was about

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population, that Russia has been
in a negative replacement rate

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for population and one of the
ways that the Russian government

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thought that they could fix
this.

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I'm not saying this is the only
reason this they invaded, but it

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was one that was somewhat under
the radar that was discussed.

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They could go in and annex those
other parts of Russia that they

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deemed ethnically Russian and
then that would bolster their

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their population.
What they didn't count on was

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the war taking this long.
And so now they're even if they

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even if they walk away with
those other provinces, they're

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still going to be worse now than
they were before they invaded

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because they've lost so many men
in war, right?

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Elon Musk has come out and said,
and you know, Elon's not a

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classical conservative guy,
right?

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Very big on the free market,
that sort of thing.

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But he's come out and said,
yeah, we better start having as

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many kids as we can because the
replacement rate in the United

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States is getting low.
So I would think within about

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four or five years, you're going
to see this creep into the

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States.
It's a trend in all of the West,

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not just America or Russia.
It's a trend that is going those

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bigger socialist countries,
they'll feel it first because

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they rely on the replacement
rate to fund the program.

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So everything's funded from the
past into the future and they'll

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you'll start seeing those,
those.

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That includes the.
US.

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Yep, that.
Includes the US Yep because

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Social Security funds it the
same way right and and that will

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become an issue in the coming in
the coming years I think yeah so

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mark that down write that down I
could be wrong but that's that's

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where I'm going with it so
anyway awesome so OK let's let's

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pick up where we left off then
there.

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All right, perfect.
So, so moving on into chapter 6,

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this is there's a book called
The Mothers by a guy named

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Robert Briffault.
Early Christian moralists who

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accounted marriage as a
necessary evil favored monogamy

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as a reduction of that evil to a
minimum.

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See.
So this is driven by celibacy

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and Roman stuff.
So there's a guy concerning the

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historical perspective,
Professor John Karen Cross

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wrote.
Not only is there nothing in the

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Bible contrary to polygamy, in
early Christian times it was

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common.
Even Charlemagne had several

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lives.
Gradually, priest craft became

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more and more powerful.
The Church imposed not only

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monogamy, monogamy, but the
celibacy of the priests, and

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also church control of marriage.
In 1532, Charles the Fifth made

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polygamy a capital offense, and
the Council of Trent ratified

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the condemnation of the
practice.

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And yet whoremongers and
adulterers go Scott free.

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How wickedly unjust.
Can can we explore that for just

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a second?
So I I want to know why it is

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that the Roman system was so
antithetical to plural marriage.

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Rome was a lot.
Ancient Rome was a lot like

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modern America.
OK.

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It's, it's basically it's, it's,
you know, late Republic nonsense

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is a term that a guy named Steve
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this phenomenon.
And, and it's basically it's a

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situation where in late in a
Republic, all republics have an

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expiration date essentially.
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history, the devolves into
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It devolves into, you know,
hedonism and secularism and and

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the IT loses that moral
foundation that that made the

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Republic possible and strong,
you know, and this is something

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that was basically prophesied by
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John, was it John Adams, I
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Benjamin Franklin, I think is
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walking out and some lady at
least said, Mr. Franklin, what

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kind of government have you
given us?

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And he says a Republic, Madam,
if you can keep it so.

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Yeah.
Benjamin Franklin, he understood

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the American founders understood
that a Republic, to survive a

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Republic must have a moral and
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And, and so that's, that's kind
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want a Republic.
And we know what happens when

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you lose that moral and virtuous
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you cease to be a republican,
you become an empire.

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And so that was the Roman
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an empire.
And you know, because early

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Rome, Roman history with the
Roman Republic, late Roman

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history is the Roman Empire,
which later became absorbed into

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basically a theocracy with the
Catholic Church being the, the

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actual de facto rule.
I mean, there were a lot, of

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course there were all these
European monarchs, but they all

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were held sway by the Pope and
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And so the Church was dictating
policy, even though the monarchs

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technically wielded the
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Power.
Gotcha.

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OK, All right, that makes sense.
I was just curious why, why it

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was the Roman influence that was
so that that carried such a

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heavy stick in this idea of of
chastity.

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I shouldn't even say chastity.
That's not the right word.

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But celibacy, yeah, yeah.
And and whatnot.

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But I think that kind of answers
the question there.

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So.
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So, yeah, the, the Roman Empire
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and that's when celibacy starts
being the, I won't say the

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standard, but the the ideal.
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Monogamy is the next best thing.
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So I'm going to read another
excerpt from James Campbell in

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1869.
He says I have demonstrated that

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monogamy is not commanded in the
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doctrine of Christianity.
I shall now account for its

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origin by proving that it is the
joint offspring of paganism and

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Romanism.
The social system of European

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monogamy is proved to be derived
from the ancient Greeks and

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Romans, especially the latter,
by the early histories of the

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nations of Europe, and by an
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traditional customs from them to
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It is one of those Pagan
abominations which we have

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inherited, which the Roman
Church has sanctioned and

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confirmed, and from which we
find it so difficult to

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emancipate ourselves.
Take monogamy as it is today in

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Protestant countries, and we see
that the old Roman 11 is still

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in it.
Christianity has not reformed

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and purified that system so much
as that system has corrupted

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Christianity.
Most of us in these countries

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are accustomed to congratulate
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from the bondage and the bigotry
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Yet we are mistaken.
We've not escaped.

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Rome binds us in stronger
shackles than the iron chains of

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the Holy Inquisition.
Her shackles are upon our

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consciences.
They are intertwined with every

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fiber of our social life.
Who?

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This was written in 1869.
Whoa, that it's a it's kind of

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interesting that they that.
Who was that again that said

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that?
James Campbell, we read.

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He had some.
OK, he had some other stuff.

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Conversation.
Yeah, it's interesting that that

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he sees that as an issue that
early, right.

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And that, that they're still
operating under that Roman

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system, right.
Wow.

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Yeah.
And total the, the, the thing

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that, that I find most
interesting that goes along with

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this is that from the early days
of Protestantism, there was some

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flirting with plural marriage,
right?

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I know Martin Luther solemnized
a plural union, right, 'cause he

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looked at the Bible and said, I
can't find anything wrong in

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here with it.
It doesn't prohibit it anywhere.

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So I think it's valid, right?
And so I find that very

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fascinating that it seems like
early on they're looking at this

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and, and at least the founder of
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was like, I don't see any issues
with this, but yet it seems to

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revert back to monogamy as the
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Yes, Yep.
And so let's let's also back up

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to another really starting point
for this.

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How, how did this become so
entrenched in modern Christian

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Protestant Christianity?
I mean, we can see how Rome, you

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know, they hid the scriptures
from the people and so nobody

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could actually study.
But, but Protestants, they

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claimed, I mean, Protestantism
is based on the, this concept of

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Sola scriptura that you don't
need a priest, you don't need

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priesthood.
You just need scripture and, and

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a man and his Bible can get
closer to God than, you know,

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anything else, like a, a, a
priest or an intercessor.

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And there is truth to that, But
it but it's also, it also leads

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to idolatry of the scriptures.
And and and, and so let's let's

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dive back into this.
Are you familiar with the term

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Gnosticism Starts with AG.
Yeah, yeah.

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That's that's where the idea of
sacred knowledge is the saving

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mechanism.
But not only that, yes.

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So like esotericism and stuff
like that, but not only that,

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Gnosticism was a tradition.
It was like basically a

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philosophy of men mingled with
some scripture.

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You might say BYU and it, I
don't know.

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Well, so, but Gnosticism,
ancient Gnosticism basically

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viewed that everything physical
was evil.

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OK.
OK, the body was, you know, is

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fallen and, and, and sinful and
wicked and evil.

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And so taken to that logical
conclusion, marriage, which is

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the union of, of a man and
woman's bodies is at best a

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necessary evil.
Cause of course, if nobody

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married and nobody joined their
bodies, then there would be no

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children and we'd all die off in
a generation.

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But so the ideal upheld in
Gnosticism and so they, they tie

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righteousness to how celibate
are you?

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And so it, it enshrines
celibacy.

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And particularly this is what
initially led to the Catholic

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practice of celibate priests.
And, and so like the priesthood

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at least even if even if the the
low ranking members are carnal,

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meaning that they are married
and have children like that, at

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least the priesthood was going
to be celibate.

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And those, the origins of those
types of teachings within

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Catholicism which later
certainly influence

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Protestantism actually
originated with Gnosticism,

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which is a Roman philosophy of
men.

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So in, in at some points in
Christendom's history, marriage

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was barely tolerated and those
married who were most

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spiritually minded strove for
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So obviously with celibacy and
abstinence, given such grand

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spiritual ground, polygamy was
an excess of evil not to be

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tolerated.
Who?

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So this is from a book called
Attitudes to the Body in Western

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Christendom by a guy written by
an author, Frank Bottomley.

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He says early in the church's
life a conflict arose about the

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nature of evil that wasn't
resolved until the end of the

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4th century.
The mainline Christians accepted

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the Old Testament of Scripture
and believed that the God

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revealed there was ultimate
spiritual reality.

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Along with the Hebrews, they
believed that the physical world

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was an expression of the divine,
the direct creation of God, and

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therefore good.
The Gnostic attitude toward

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creation, on the other hand,
sprang out of Persian thinking

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that saw 2 equal and opposite
divine creative forces, the

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light and the dark.
In the Persian view, both the

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light and the dark were present
in the spiritual world and in

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nature.
The main purpose of human

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morality and religion was to
support the forces of light and

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so enable them to conquer
darkness and bring salvation to

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the universe.
Ultimately, however, a

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perversion of this Persian
viewpoint developed and became a

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seductive Christian heresy.
The dark force became equated

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with physical matter, the
physicality, and with the God of

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the Old Testament, while the
light force became equated with

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spirit, spirituality,
asceticism, and Jesus Christ.

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In Gnosticism, matter was seen
as ugly, irredeemable, and evil.

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The creation of human beings, in
this point of view was an

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imprisoning of pure and Holy
Spirit in vile matter.

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If we believe that spiritual
reality is a realm of bliss,

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harmony and ecstasy, what the
agnostics called Laroma, then

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the mingling of spirit and
matter becomes a cosmic

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catastrophe rather than
purposeful, orderly, and good.

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So in other words, they're
denying this duality of, of

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mankind because we, you know,
Mormonism teaches that we are

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basically spiritual beings
having a physical temporal

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existence there.
And this Gnostic tradition

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throws that completely out the
window and says, no, we are we

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are are imprisoned in these
physical bodies and we need to

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do anything necessary to free
ourselves, free our spirits from

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this prison.
And, and so asceticism and like

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depriving ourselves and, and
shirking all forms of pleasure

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and joy and happiness like this
is the that's Gnosticism and the

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so gradually the idea developed
when within early Christian

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Christianity, specifically the
Gnostic influences that anything

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to do with conception or
copulation or sexuality or

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genital organs was evil or ugly.
Saint Augustine was a friend,

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member of the Manichean sect for
nine years, and although he

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eventually disengaged himself
intellectually, he never fully

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disengaged himself emotionally.
His book, The Good of Marriage

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has some passages on marriage
that are, well, not

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unbelievable.
Even normal intercourse within

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marriage can be a venial sin.
The quicker married people

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abstain from all relations, the
better for their souls,

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according to Augustine, One of
the early, you know, Christian

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fathers.
Not only that, there's another

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guy trying to remember his name.
There was another of the early

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Christian fathers who bought so
much into this, this idea, this

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philosophy that he castrated
himself.

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Do you remember?
Do you happen to remember off

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the hand?
I'm just going to Google that

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I'm I'm just.
Dude, I may, I may have read it.

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That may be one of those things
that I really wanted to forget,

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but it it's interesting that I I
just can't help but compare and

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contrast right?
You have this one ideology that

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is really.
Origin.

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Origin, OK.
Origin.

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OK, it's interesting that you
have one ideology that is

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prominent, quite frankly, until
the restoration that your

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humanity is by its very nature
unholy, right?

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That it prevents you from seeing
God.

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The Joseph Smith message that he
receives from, from God, right?

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I'm I'm not just saying it's
his.

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We believe he restored restored
this through through divine

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means is that your humanity does
not have to be doesn't have to

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be the reason that you can't see
God.

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In fact, your humanity is
required to to get to where you

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want to go.
And that's a a radical departure

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from what what it had been.
But you can see the almost like

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the seeds of human destruction
sewn into some of this early

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doctrine that that these early
Christians were espousing.

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Yeah.
So, yeah, I mean, clearly, it

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didn't take long for the early
church to lose its way.

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You know, Origin himself made
himself a eunuch.

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And then in the 12th, so later
on, hope.

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Gregory the Great issues an
edict who says that married

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people cannot receive communion
after intercourse unless they

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had first done penance.
Later writers, including the

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standard Catholic theological
authors of the 12th century,

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argued that passion actually
transmitted original sin by

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corrupting the seed with its
heat.

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So if you're actually passionate
with your wife, the claim is

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that that corrupts your seed and
so the offspring are like

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hellish chimps instead of
children of God.

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00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:08,400
Holy.
Cow.

446
00:28:10,120 --> 00:28:13,560
So going on, Speaking of the
attitude toward marital sex

447
00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:16,320
regarding the obligation of
Catholics at the 4th Lateran

448
00:28:16,320 --> 00:28:20,840
Council, this isn't 12:15.
A guy named Gardelia states that

449
00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:23,760
quote sexual pleasure.
Pleasure with one spouse

450
00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:26,640
remained a venial sin.
Venial sin did not destroy the

451
00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:28,960
saving work of God's grace in
the soul as mortal sin would,

452
00:28:28,960 --> 00:28:32,560
but taking pleasure even in
married relations weakened and

453
00:28:32,560 --> 00:28:35,880
stained the soul, and so
required that the Sinner do

454
00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:39,200
penance on earth or after death.
Pope Gregory the Great had

455
00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:42,680
forbidden this during this
forbidden relations during

456
00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:46,600
nursing, lest the milk be
spoiled or contaminated.

457
00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:54,160
Holy cow.
So in so the the conclusion

458
00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:58,080
here, enforced monogamy was the
doctrinal invention of Roman

459
00:28:58,080 --> 00:29:00,360
Catholicism.
Wow.

460
00:29:02,040 --> 00:29:05,400
And in 1563, the Council of
Trent.

461
00:29:05,480 --> 00:29:09,640
So I mean, here's the thing, we,
we can be grateful for our

462
00:29:09,880 --> 00:29:14,480
Christian heritage as like these
councils, they were trying, I

463
00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:17,560
think very sincerely to do what
was right, to try to give

464
00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:22,040
guidance and, and establish the
correct principles to govern a

465
00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:26,200
church.
But they had they, they had some

466
00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:28,280
real misses as along the way as
well.

467
00:29:28,280 --> 00:29:31,960
So 1563, the Council of Trent
reclarified the Catholic

468
00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:36,440
position by declaring anyone who
held polygamy to be lawful, to

469
00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:40,880
be anathema.
And anathema is just, like, a

470
00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:45,080
really strong word for you're
just as evil as it gets.

471
00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:46,440
You're just, you know,
irritable.

472
00:29:47,200 --> 00:29:52,960
Essentially, religion is the
source of bigamy laws.

473
00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:57,680
So Samuel Chapman is an author.
He wrote polygamy, bigamy and

474
00:29:57,680 --> 00:30:00,280
human rights law.
And in the book he wrote, he

475
00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:02,880
says the roots of bigamy laws
extend deep into the past and

476
00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:04,960
are as much entwined with
established religious

477
00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:08,400
organizations as they are with
social or democratic concerns.

478
00:30:08,960 --> 00:30:11,600
Polygamy is recorded in the
Bible as a practice of the

479
00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:14,760
patriarchs and kings, and the
text speaks of the relationship

480
00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:17,560
between God and Israel, and
later between Christ and the

481
00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:19,480
Church.
In polygamous terms.

482
00:30:19,760 --> 00:30:22,440
Polygamy itself escapes any form
of Scripture condemnation and

483
00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:24,320
instead appears to attract
support.

484
00:30:24,760 --> 00:30:27,240
After the Bible was completed,
as one church or another became

485
00:30:27,240 --> 00:30:30,560
established as rival authorities
in law, and as the Roman Church

486
00:30:30,560 --> 00:30:33,560
itself married the empire,
condemnations of polygamous

487
00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:36,240
behavior began to become more
common.

488
00:30:36,760 --> 00:30:39,520
Bigamy has been a criminal
offence in England and Wales

489
00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:43,520
since 16 O 4, when the first
Parliament of James the First

490
00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:46,720
took action ensuring that anyone
found guilty would receive a

491
00:30:46,720 --> 00:30:50,120
sentence of death.
Remember what we were talking

492
00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:53,760
about, translators?
So in in the Acts of King James

493
00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:59,160
in 16 O 4, this is the guy that
commissioned the King James

494
00:30:59,160 --> 00:31:00,600
version of the Bible.
Right.

495
00:31:02,120 --> 00:31:06,320
Just this Like any translation
of the Bible, the King James

496
00:31:06,320 --> 00:31:08,480
Version finds it impossible to
conceal the polygamy of the

497
00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:10,040
patriarchs.
But some of the polygamous

498
00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:13,120
references in the New Testament
are rendered with sufficient

499
00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:16,000
ambiguity to let the reader pass
on without noticing their

500
00:31:16,080 --> 00:31:23,480
polygamous content.
Wow, may I get one?

501
00:31:24,680 --> 00:31:28,320
You get into biblical history
and it's not cut and dry, right?

502
00:31:28,320 --> 00:31:31,840
We have this idea that that the
Canon of Scripture that we have

503
00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:34,520
the King, the King James
Version, anyway, I should say,

504
00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:39,080
comes down in a pristine line,
you know, with some scribes that

505
00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:42,800
screw some stuff up, maybe some
evil men who wanted to for

506
00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:45,760
power, and it's just clean,
right?

507
00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:50,760
Other than that, that's not the
case whatsoever whatsoever.

508
00:31:51,320 --> 00:31:54,640
And the King James Bible, we
have seen where, where there's

509
00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:56,480
issues there, right?
I'm, I don't want to throw it

510
00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:58,200
all under the bus.
That's not what I'm saying.

511
00:31:58,200 --> 00:32:01,440
I believe it's a valid form of
scripture, obviously right?

512
00:32:02,080 --> 00:32:03,960
But.
Honestly, it's it's my favorite

513
00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:06,960
because it has the the old
Shakespearean, which I think is

514
00:32:06,960 --> 00:32:09,360
the most beautiful form of the
English language.

515
00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:13,520
So absolutely.
But yeah, obviously it has to be

516
00:32:13,520 --> 00:32:16,720
translated correctly, as in with
integrity and not with all of

517
00:32:16,720 --> 00:32:21,000
these biases and other issues
otherwise.

518
00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:25,280
You know, it's interesting that
most of the founders of the

519
00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:27,520
country didn't use the King
James Version.

520
00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:30,320
They either used, I can never
remember this.

521
00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:34,400
I think it's the Geneva Bible.
It might be Gutenberg, but I'm

522
00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:39,000
about 85% or 90% sure that it's
it's the Geneva Bible.

523
00:32:39,920 --> 00:32:43,040
And the Geneva Bible was really
hard on kings.

524
00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:48,720
I mean, did not like kings.
And so it's interesting that as

525
00:32:48,760 --> 00:32:52,480
as you look at at biblical
literature and biblical history,

526
00:32:53,680 --> 00:32:56,200
there seems to be a few
different flavors out there of

527
00:32:56,200 --> 00:32:58,800
essentially the same text,
right, Depending on how the

528
00:32:58,800 --> 00:33:02,960
translation goes.
But it it that's that's super

529
00:33:02,960 --> 00:33:06,840
interesting that the first guy
who translates the Bible into

530
00:33:06,840 --> 00:33:12,840
English also has an edict to
kill all polygamists.

531
00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:16,840
Yeah, it's nuts.
Yeah.

532
00:33:17,560 --> 00:33:21,360
So obviously, and this is back
to the author, obviously, if one

533
00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:24,200
starts their view suspecting
marriage to be tainted or evil,

534
00:33:24,200 --> 00:33:27,840
it will follow that polygamy is
therefore very tainted or evil.

535
00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:30,480
Whereas if one starts their view
acknowledging marriage is a

536
00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:33,280
loving and gracious gift from
God, it will then follow that

537
00:33:33,280 --> 00:33:38,080
polygamy is an added blessing.
Polygamy is not an issue of sin,

538
00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:40,280
it's a religious issue forced
upon society.

539
00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:43,280
It's rejection is rooted in the
viewing of the human body as

540
00:33:43,280 --> 00:33:46,480
evil, ultimately calling all
marriage into question as evil,

541
00:33:46,480 --> 00:33:51,360
but especially it's morality.
So in Christendom's historic

542
00:33:51,480 --> 00:33:54,880
Gnostic influenced view,
physical world is evil, physical

543
00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:58,360
body is evil, marriage is a
necessary evil, Polygamy is an

544
00:33:58,360 --> 00:34:01,400
ultimate evil.
Whereas scripture, and we're not

545
00:34:01,400 --> 00:34:04,240
talking about Mormon scripture,
we're talking strictly biblical

546
00:34:04,240 --> 00:34:06,960
scripture.
In In the Bible's divine view,

547
00:34:07,360 --> 00:34:11,520
the physical world is good, the
physical body is good, marriage

548
00:34:11,520 --> 00:34:15,320
is good, and polygamy is
therefore an ultimate good.

549
00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:22,000
Yeah, it it really did turn that
that completely upside down did

550
00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:25,480
a 180.
Yeah, so it's religion that has

551
00:34:25,480 --> 00:34:28,159
destroyed the biblical family
and left multitudes of women in

552
00:34:28,159 --> 00:34:31,400
forced celibacy, not being able
to fulfill their divinely given

553
00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:35,080
roles of wife and mother.
Now seriously, who are the ones

554
00:34:35,080 --> 00:34:38,360
really being immoral?
What a shameful disgrace.

555
00:34:38,880 --> 00:34:40,239
Proverbs 1822.
Who?

556
00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:43,320
Whoso finds a wife finds a good
thing, it obtains favor of the

557
00:34:43,320 --> 00:34:45,400
Lord.
The principle of plural marriage

558
00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:48,800
finds its dark side not in God
of the Scriptures, but in

559
00:34:48,800 --> 00:34:53,480
Christendom's Gnostic deception.
Marriage is honorable in all

560
00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:56,360
Hebrews 13 four.
So he kind of, he repeats these

561
00:34:56,360 --> 00:34:58,480
scriptures at the end of
chapters, but I think they're

562
00:34:58,480 --> 00:34:59,880
worth repeating.
Absolutely.

563
00:34:59,880 --> 00:35:03,640
So now let's let's let's move
ahead in church history into the

564
00:35:03,640 --> 00:35:05,320
Reformation.
Got you.

565
00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:11,120
OK, So the early reformers, some
of the early reformers dealt

566
00:35:11,120 --> 00:35:13,240
with the issue like you were
saying, Martin Luther of plural

567
00:35:13,240 --> 00:35:14,840
marriages.
In fact, the three leading

568
00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:17,560
figures of the German
Reformation, Martin Luther,

569
00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:22,920
Langfan and Buser, signed the
Wittenberg deliberation, which

570
00:35:22,920 --> 00:35:25,400
was mostly taken up with an
examination of the biblical

571
00:35:25,400 --> 00:35:27,360
authority for a man having
multiple marriages.

572
00:35:27,840 --> 00:35:30,440
They jointly gave their public
blessing to Philip the

573
00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:33,160
Magnanimous of Hesse to marry a
second wife.

574
00:35:35,760 --> 00:35:43,040
So Martin Luther.
So this was a different guy

575
00:35:43,040 --> 00:35:46,120
named James Stivers, but he says
I It was not till I read Martin

576
00:35:46,120 --> 00:35:48,880
Luther that my prejudice against
polygamy was disarmed.

577
00:35:49,120 --> 00:35:51,320
Not only did Luther defend
polygamy as a remedy for

578
00:35:51,320 --> 00:35:54,760
fornication, but it was far
preferable to divorce.

579
00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:57,280
Luther's did not stand alone in
these opinions, but was

580
00:35:57,280 --> 00:36:01,440
supported by other and Melanctin
and the Lutheran clergy in

581
00:36:01,440 --> 00:36:03,960
general.
He insisted that whatsoever was

582
00:36:03,960 --> 00:36:06,760
not specifically forbidden by
Scripture was optional for the

583
00:36:06,760 --> 00:36:08,280
Christian.
And not only is there no

584
00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:11,560
biblical ban on polygamy, there
are positive examples of it in

585
00:36:11,560 --> 00:36:15,080
the Patriarchs.
In January 1521, Luther had

586
00:36:15,080 --> 00:36:17,640
written to a friend whose
marital life was wholly asexual

587
00:36:17,640 --> 00:36:20,320
owing to the illness of his
wife, and had been asked whether

588
00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:23,920
he might take a second wife.
Luther had responded that in

589
00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:25,880
this is his words Martin
Luther's writings.

590
00:36:26,200 --> 00:36:29,480
I confess indeed, I cannot
forbid anyone who wishes to

591
00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:37,200
marry several wives nor is that
against Holy Scripture Luther

592
00:36:37,560 --> 00:36:42,640
OK, it just more more stuff.
Interestingly, in in view of the

593
00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:45,280
overwhelming forces militating
against Luther giving his

594
00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:49,160
approval to Phil because got to
remember this is pretty much

595
00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:51,760
almost contemporary.
This is just before the King

596
00:36:51,760 --> 00:36:53,480
James Version of the Bible, but
it's this.

597
00:36:53,480 --> 00:36:55,760
It's all within about 80 years
of each other.

598
00:36:56,080 --> 00:37:00,320
And Luther's given decision to
consent to a bigamist marriage

599
00:37:00,520 --> 00:37:04,160
is astounding because at this
time in Germany, bigamy was a

600
00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:08,080
capital offense.
He knew, and Luther clearly knew

601
00:37:08,080 --> 00:37:11,000
from the outset in 1526, that
such a thing could cause a great

602
00:37:11,000 --> 00:37:13,080
scandal.
Right.

603
00:37:15,960 --> 00:37:21,120
There's an Italian reformer
named Bernardino Ochino, and

604
00:37:21,120 --> 00:37:24,000
he's he writes that David was
reproached by the Lord for his

605
00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:26,080
adultery, but never for his
polygamy.

606
00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:32,200
So again, this is Bernardino
Ochino live 1487 to 1564,

607
00:37:32,200 --> 00:37:35,880
contemporary of Martin Luther.
And he says, indeed, God clearly

608
00:37:35,880 --> 00:37:40,720
says to David that he God had
given him David many wives,

609
00:37:41,280 --> 00:37:43,680
though you read the whole Bible
over, you shall never find that

610
00:37:43,680 --> 00:37:46,240
God has forbade the having of
diverse wives.

611
00:37:46,560 --> 00:37:50,240
In short, God bless the plural
marriages of those holy men, the

612
00:37:50,240 --> 00:37:53,120
first fathers of the world.
These are Ochino's nick words.

613
00:37:53,520 --> 00:37:56,560
Moses, far from mentioning such
a ban, sets forth provisions for

614
00:37:56,560 --> 00:37:59,080
the treatment of children in
cases where a man has two wives,

615
00:37:59,240 --> 00:38:02,040
one beloved, the other not.
And from these passages it

616
00:38:02,040 --> 00:38:05,280
follows by the word of God that
all the children are legitimate

617
00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:07,560
from diverse wives by the same
husband.

618
00:38:10,360 --> 00:38:16,240
Anabaptist John Milton now John
John Milton was the author of

619
00:38:16,240 --> 00:38:20,880
Paradise Lost.
Maybe I guess it may not be

620
00:38:20,880 --> 00:38:23,680
super familiar to everybody, but
but I'm sure some listeners are

621
00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:27,360
familiar with that He was a
supporter.

622
00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:31,160
He was a defender and advocate
for polygamy in his so this is

623
00:38:31,160 --> 00:38:34,840
what he wrote quote for the that
for that the husband is in a

624
00:38:34,840 --> 00:38:37,120
condition to perform his
conjugal duties to the wife

625
00:38:37,120 --> 00:38:41,240
after having taken another to
her is shown by God himself in

626
00:38:41,240 --> 00:38:44,440
Exodus chapter 21 verse 10.
If you take him, another wife,

627
00:38:44,440 --> 00:38:46,600
her food, her raiment, and her
duty of marriage shall not be

628
00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:51,320
dismissed, diminished.
John Milton also observes that

629
00:38:51,320 --> 00:38:55,080
God himself, Ezekiel 23 verse 4,
represents himself as having

630
00:38:55,080 --> 00:38:57,680
espoused 2 wives, which would
have been unthinkable had the

631
00:38:57,680 --> 00:39:00,240
practice been intrinsically
dishonorable or shameful.

632
00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:03,160
On the contrary, Milton
maintains polygamy is, quote,

633
00:39:03,160 --> 00:39:06,520
lawful and honorable.
Not that Milton was demonstrably

634
00:39:06,520 --> 00:39:08,480
inclined to polygamy.
He was thrice married, but in

635
00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:11,120
succession after the death of
the 1st and subsequently of the

636
00:39:11,120 --> 00:39:13,400
second wife.
There is nothing particularly

637
00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:16,120
significant about this, except
perhaps that Milton did not like

638
00:39:16,120 --> 00:39:18,680
living alone and was fond of
female companionship.

639
00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:21,440
In fact, he never made any
secret of his delight in the

640
00:39:21,440 --> 00:39:24,040
quote apartment and cheerful
conversation of man with woman

641
00:39:24,040 --> 00:39:27,320
to comfort and refresh him.
For him, the text, the key text

642
00:39:27,320 --> 00:39:31,360
applicable to marital life was
not to increase and multiply,

643
00:39:31,480 --> 00:39:33,920
but that quote.
It is not good for man to be

644
00:39:33,920 --> 00:39:37,600
alone.
Right who?

645
00:39:38,040 --> 00:39:40,160
His marriage is not just about
having children.

646
00:39:40,600 --> 00:39:43,640
Right.
Handyship you it's counsel it's

647
00:39:44,360 --> 00:39:50,920
just the joy I mean I feel bad
for guys that that are not

648
00:39:50,920 --> 00:39:54,960
married because literally you're
missing out on one of the

649
00:39:54,960 --> 00:39:59,920
greatest joys that's that there
is available in this life so and

650
00:39:59,920 --> 00:40:02,160
you know if that's their choice
that's fine, but if if somebody

651
00:40:02,160 --> 00:40:03,680
sincerely wants to be married
and just.

652
00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:07,120
You can't find a companion
that's compatible like that's.

653
00:40:07,400 --> 00:40:10,000
That's sad.
Yeah, yeah.

654
00:40:10,440 --> 00:40:16,680
And so we we have all these
early Protestant leaders who

655
00:40:16,680 --> 00:40:20,560
seem to be on board, right, so
to speak.

656
00:40:22,560 --> 00:40:25,360
What what do you think halts
that?

657
00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:29,760
I mean, do you think that it's
just social pressures of the

658
00:40:29,760 --> 00:40:31,760
day?
Do you think it, you know, it

659
00:40:31,760 --> 00:40:34,760
sounds like in Europe there's
several countries that have

660
00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:37,320
edicts like, hey, you're
practicing plural marriage,

661
00:40:37,960 --> 00:40:42,680
you're done.
Is is early?

662
00:40:42,680 --> 00:40:45,800
Protestantism was the
counterculture, right, like

663
00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:52,000
early Protestantism was, was
revolutionizing the religious

664
00:40:52,000 --> 00:40:57,240
world, the environment there.
And so, but it was founded upon

665
00:40:58,480 --> 00:41:01,240
education and scriptural
mastery.

666
00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:07,840
And it was founded upon all of
these, these principles of, for

667
00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:12,080
lack of a better word, just like
scholarship and and knowledge.

668
00:41:13,760 --> 00:41:16,840
Because coming from the the
background of Catholicism, like

669
00:41:16,840 --> 00:41:21,040
all of those things had been
squelched for generations.

670
00:41:21,040 --> 00:41:26,080
And so and so, but
unfortunately, the founders of

671
00:41:26,080 --> 00:41:30,680
the Reformation, like the early
Protestant leaders, they, they,

672
00:41:31,040 --> 00:41:34,040
they did the work, they knew
what they were talking about.

673
00:41:34,040 --> 00:41:38,120
They, they had done the
homework, whereas the, the

674
00:41:38,120 --> 00:41:44,320
people who followed them were
sadly more following the man

675
00:41:44,440 --> 00:41:47,240
than the, the scripture and the
principles.

676
00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:53,680
And so I think that within a, a
generation or two, I mean, not

677
00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:56,120
saying that there were no other
scholars and no other people who

678
00:41:56,120 --> 00:41:59,440
really studied the Scriptures,
There were clearly, but but

679
00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:02,760
these, the, the founding
generation of the Rif of the

680
00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:08,440
reformers were unique in that
they were so well acquainted

681
00:42:08,440 --> 00:42:11,680
with and and familiar with the,
the Scriptures.

682
00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:18,720
The Bible.
So here's here, there's another

683
00:42:18,720 --> 00:42:21,360
few names I'm just going to they
have, he has some excerpts from

684
00:42:21,360 --> 00:42:24,000
their works.
But so John, I, I talked about

685
00:42:24,000 --> 00:42:26,640
John Milton, a guy named Martin
Maidan.

686
00:42:27,240 --> 00:42:31,880
He he, his claim to fame is he
wrote the hymn Hark the Herald

687
00:42:31,880 --> 00:42:34,520
Angels Sing.
And he wrote a huge weighty

688
00:42:34,520 --> 00:42:37,480
volume on polygamy called
Celithoria.

689
00:42:40,320 --> 00:42:42,480
Anyway, so then there's another
one.

690
00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:51,960
Sir Walter Raleigh and Sir
Thomas Brown.

691
00:42:52,680 --> 00:42:56,280
Hugo Grotius, Samuel Puffendorf,
John Dunn.

692
00:42:56,680 --> 00:42:59,240
Oh, so John Dunn the poet I
don't know if you've heard of.

693
00:42:59,400 --> 00:43:03,320
Yeah.
Interestingly, he wrote

694
00:43:03,320 --> 00:43:08,040
favorably of polygamy and King
James's own grandson, Charles

695
00:43:08,040 --> 00:43:10,160
Lewis, Elector of the Rainish
Palatin.

696
00:43:10,160 --> 00:43:14,040
It married a second wife without
apparently divorcing the 1st and

697
00:43:14,040 --> 00:43:16,400
at least sponsored and possibly
wrote a defensive polygamy

698
00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:21,840
himself.
So the poet John Donne, one of

699
00:43:21,840 --> 00:43:26,960
his poems says how happy were
our sires in ancient time who

700
00:43:26,960 --> 00:43:29,480
held plurality of love.
No crime.

701
00:43:36,880 --> 00:43:42,520
So anyway, that's, I think
that's good enough for that.

702
00:43:42,520 --> 00:43:44,960
Let's go, let's move forward.
So anything else do you want to

703
00:43:44,960 --> 00:43:45,680
cover?
Anything else?

704
00:43:45,680 --> 00:43:46,520
Nope.
That's good.

705
00:43:49,280 --> 00:43:52,200
Let's move into chapter 8, which
this is where he addresses the

706
00:43:52,200 --> 00:43:57,800
cultural issue.
OK, so in so in the majority of

707
00:43:57,800 --> 00:44:02,480
the world's cultures, polygamy,
polygyny, which so polygyny is a

708
00:44:02,480 --> 00:44:06,000
specific form of polygamy
because technically polygamy

709
00:44:06,000 --> 00:44:10,160
could be a woman having multiple
husbands, a man having multiple

710
00:44:10,160 --> 00:44:11,880
wives.
You know, it could be more of a

711
00:44:11,880 --> 00:44:15,400
polyamorous type of a situation
where as polygyny is the

712
00:44:15,400 --> 00:44:20,040
biblical principle of one
husband, multiple wives.

713
00:44:20,640 --> 00:44:24,520
So anyway, so this in the
majority of the world's cultures

714
00:44:24,640 --> 00:44:30,200
today and in throughout history
it is it's a viable and in many

715
00:44:30,200 --> 00:44:32,840
it's circumstance is the ideal
option.

716
00:44:32,880 --> 00:44:36,200
This is from a book called
Plural Marriage for our Times by

717
00:44:36,200 --> 00:44:39,640
Philip Kilbride.
It should be noted that polygyny

718
00:44:39,640 --> 00:44:41,880
as a marriage form is prevalent
throughout the world.

719
00:44:41,880 --> 00:44:44,640
In historical terms, it is
monogamy that is in need of

720
00:44:44,640 --> 00:44:50,040
explanation, not polygamy.
That's from another book.

721
00:44:50,320 --> 00:44:51,800
All the sources are in this in
the book.

722
00:44:51,800 --> 00:44:53,200
So just by the book, everyone
listening.

723
00:44:53,200 --> 00:44:58,600
So of the 1154 Human Societies
in the Human Relations area

724
00:44:58,600 --> 00:45:03,080
files of Yale University, more
than 1000 practice some degree

725
00:45:03,080 --> 00:45:06,640
of sanctioned polygamy, and
polygamy is the preferred choice

726
00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:09,520
in 70% of those.
Wow.

727
00:45:09,880 --> 00:45:13,920
So monogamy is by far the
minority in in history and even

728
00:45:13,920 --> 00:45:15,920
modern history.
Even these these are also

729
00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:17,840
including contemporary
civilizations.

730
00:45:19,080 --> 00:45:22,080
Through cultural domination,
American European social

731
00:45:22,080 --> 00:45:25,640
structures are projected as
superior and those of other

732
00:45:25,640 --> 00:45:29,160
peoples as inferior.
Interesting.

733
00:45:30,440 --> 00:45:32,200
The pride of Ephraim.
Right.

734
00:45:34,640 --> 00:45:39,440
So I'm just going to read a
couple other things.

735
00:45:39,440 --> 00:45:42,560
Let's see.
This is from a book, a 24 volume

736
00:45:42,560 --> 00:45:46,280
set called Understanding Human
Behavior, published by Columbia

737
00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:49,760
House.
A Westerner would find it hard

738
00:45:49,760 --> 00:45:53,320
to reconcile the rivalry and
inbuilt possessiveness of his

739
00:45:53,320 --> 00:45:56,160
monogamous experience with the
life of peaceful polygamy.

740
00:45:56,640 --> 00:45:59,560
To people of monogamous Western
background, polygamy seems an

741
00:45:59,560 --> 00:46:02,440
extraordinary aberration from
the natural state of things.

742
00:46:02,920 --> 00:46:05,960
But man is a creature of his
environment and where the

743
00:46:05,960 --> 00:46:08,480
circumstances of our lives to
depend upon it, Polygamy might

744
00:46:08,480 --> 00:46:11,160
simply become the rule in our
society, as it has in many

745
00:46:11,160 --> 00:46:15,120
others, and what we now see as
emotional prohibitions would

746
00:46:15,120 --> 00:46:19,320
evaporate.
Dude, that goes along with what

747
00:46:19,320 --> 00:46:23,040
I told you that in that last
episode where where that guy

748
00:46:23,040 --> 00:46:28,320
basically told me, oh if, if
society collapses, polygamy is

749
00:46:28,320 --> 00:46:33,800
the default mechanism.
Yeah, this theme article this

750
00:46:33,800 --> 00:46:38,080
this 24 volume series goes on
and says in some societies a man

751
00:46:38,080 --> 00:46:41,480
may marry several wives.
Western society does allow this,

752
00:46:41,480 --> 00:46:43,760
just in a different way.
In what is sometimes called

753
00:46:43,760 --> 00:46:47,440
serial polygamy, a man may marry
several wives, so long as he

754
00:46:47,440 --> 00:46:50,640
legally divorces the current one
before marrying the next.

755
00:46:51,320 --> 00:46:54,400
Arguably, the Christian form of
polygamy is a more primitive and

756
00:46:54,400 --> 00:46:56,880
callous arrangement for the
man's existing family than

757
00:46:56,880 --> 00:46:59,360
ordinary polygamy.
In polygamist societies, the

758
00:46:59,360 --> 00:47:02,440
first wife and their children
remain viable parts of a viable

759
00:47:02,440 --> 00:47:05,360
social entity.
In serial polygamy, the children

760
00:47:05,360 --> 00:47:08,240
are brought up in a broken home.
The wife is discarded in a

761
00:47:08,240 --> 00:47:16,560
difficult social position.
It does seem unjust when it's

762
00:47:16,560 --> 00:47:20,320
put that way, right?
I mean, there's just no other

763
00:47:20,320 --> 00:47:22,000
way around it, right?
I mean.

764
00:47:22,000 --> 00:47:24,720
It's kind of like it's, it's,
it's, you know what it kind of

765
00:47:24,720 --> 00:47:28,360
reminds me of?
It reminds me of the Olympics

766
00:47:29,120 --> 00:47:36,320
where you had this brave tranny
competing in women's sports, in

767
00:47:36,320 --> 00:47:41,400
women's boxing, right?
And you have all these feminists

768
00:47:41,600 --> 00:47:45,520
or people claiming to be
feminists cheering him on and

769
00:47:45,600 --> 00:47:49,000
saying he's so great and so
brave and just historic and all

770
00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:52,440
this.
When you break it down, we're

771
00:47:52,440 --> 00:47:55,280
just, we're watching a dude beat
up a, a, a woman.

772
00:47:56,320 --> 00:47:57,920
Yeah.
What's brave about that?

773
00:47:58,360 --> 00:48:02,840
You know, and, and, and I think
it's kind of the similar concept

774
00:48:02,840 --> 00:48:08,440
of when you have what's truly
pro woman.

775
00:48:09,520 --> 00:48:12,280
Right.
Polygamy or polygamy?

776
00:48:13,120 --> 00:48:16,880
What's pro Children right or
Pygmy?

777
00:48:17,400 --> 00:48:18,720
Yeah, yeah.
Like.

778
00:48:20,040 --> 00:48:23,000
So I don't know if you caught
it, but I did an episode with a

779
00:48:23,000 --> 00:48:26,240
guy named Randall Edwards, who's
an attorney in Salt Lake there.

780
00:48:26,240 --> 00:48:29,080
So shout out to him.
Dude's a great, great guy.

781
00:48:30,080 --> 00:48:36,920
But we did an episode on what
what some of those early fights

782
00:48:36,920 --> 00:48:40,240
against the Mormons were all
about by the time the Utah

783
00:48:40,240 --> 00:48:43,280
period rolls around and they're
talking about, you know, all the

784
00:48:43,280 --> 00:48:45,160
polygamy in Utah that's going
on.

785
00:48:46,720 --> 00:48:50,960
One of the things they say that
I find fascinating is we don't

786
00:48:50,960 --> 00:48:58,320
want to be like the mongrel
races of, of the Middle East and

787
00:48:58,720 --> 00:49:03,280
Northern Africa by espousing
polygamy because it'll just lead

788
00:49:03,280 --> 00:49:07,960
to, to anarchy and chaos, right?
And I find that it was

789
00:49:07,960 --> 00:49:12,440
interesting kind of founded in
that xenophobic kind of language

790
00:49:12,440 --> 00:49:14,840
that that's what that decision
was couched in.

791
00:49:15,720 --> 00:49:21,960
It's it's pretty fascinating.
Yeah, so let's go back to James

792
00:49:21,960 --> 00:49:28,120
Campbell again from the 1869
book I am called by the Justice

793
00:49:28,120 --> 00:49:31,520
of God and the Sufferings in
Mankind in behalf of a greater

794
00:49:31,520 --> 00:49:34,680
freedom to marry and a greater
purity of the marriage relation.

795
00:49:35,480 --> 00:49:38,800
Let us have such marriage Laws,
that whatsoever relations any

796
00:49:38,800 --> 00:49:42,040
honorable man shall determine to
form with the other, sex, can be

797
00:49:42,040 --> 00:49:44,680
honorably formed and honorably
maintained.

798
00:49:45,760 --> 00:49:49,640
By attempting to deprive 1/2 the
women of any lawful and

799
00:49:49,640 --> 00:49:51,880
honorable means of amorous
Pleasure, and by allowing the

800
00:49:51,880 --> 00:49:57,080
Men only partial and inadequate
means, it impels a multitude of

801
00:49:57,080 --> 00:50:00,640
each sex, whose secret
Transgression or else to open

802
00:50:00,640 --> 00:50:04,840
profligacy.
Now which social System is the

803
00:50:04,840 --> 00:50:07,600
more honorable and manly, the
more virtuous and pure?

804
00:50:08,000 --> 00:50:10,880
The one more in accordance with
nature and the laws of Nature's

805
00:50:10,880 --> 00:50:15,800
God, A pretended and a corrupt
monogamy, or an open and honest

806
00:50:15,880 --> 00:50:21,280
ligamy, which manifests the more
base and selfish passion.

807
00:50:21,520 --> 00:50:24,040
The man who espouses the
partners of his love, and takes

808
00:50:24,040 --> 00:50:26,600
them to his home in his heart,
and provides for them and their

809
00:50:26,600 --> 00:50:29,240
children?
Or the man who steals away from

810
00:50:29,240 --> 00:50:32,280
his house in the dark and
indulges his dishonorable and

811
00:50:32,280 --> 00:50:36,000
degrading passion in secret dark
places, and then abandons the

812
00:50:36,000 --> 00:50:39,040
partners of his guilty pleasure
to a life of wretchedness and

813
00:50:39,040 --> 00:50:47,600
shame and want.
Well, and and there's a point to

814
00:50:47,600 --> 00:50:50,880
that too, right?
Clear up to Victorian times, it

815
00:50:50,880 --> 00:50:56,280
was considered gentlemanly to
visit the local House of ill

816
00:50:56,280 --> 00:50:59,600
repute, right?
I mean, it was just what quote

817
00:50:59,600 --> 00:51:02,600
boys did.
And I find that rather

818
00:51:02,600 --> 00:51:04,600
disgusting.
And, and I want to be careful to

819
00:51:04,600 --> 00:51:11,600
never use something as, as, you
know, noble, as plural marriage,

820
00:51:12,320 --> 00:51:18,160
as, you know, a license to just
have a guy be carnal, right?

821
00:51:18,400 --> 00:51:20,320
Obviously sex is a part of
marriage.

822
00:51:20,320 --> 00:51:29,360
There's no way around it.
But but I don't want to give

823
00:51:29,360 --> 00:51:33,080
anyone the the idea that hey
man, this is just a way for you

824
00:51:33,080 --> 00:51:37,920
to get satisfied without any
real work because this does take

825
00:51:37,920 --> 00:51:46,440
work. 100% Well, and not only
that, like the the people who

826
00:51:46,440 --> 00:51:52,480
the the people who would accused
a man who believes in or is

827
00:51:52,480 --> 00:51:56,960
interested in in living the
plural marriage principle of

828
00:51:56,960 --> 00:52:01,760
being motivated only by lust.
Like what does that say about

829
00:52:01,760 --> 00:52:04,200
that person?
I think it says more about that

830
00:52:04,200 --> 00:52:09,640
person and it says about the
practice because because one of

831
00:52:09,840 --> 00:52:15,720
one of the most God ordained
motives for marriage, at least

832
00:52:15,720 --> 00:52:23,160
for a dude, is gratification of
the sexual urge, right?

833
00:52:23,200 --> 00:52:27,320
And and it's not Christianity
that has a problem with that.

834
00:52:27,640 --> 00:52:31,520
It's Gnostics, Gnosticism,
right?

835
00:52:31,800 --> 00:52:35,000
Gnosticism is, is the problem.
It's not Christianity, it's not

836
00:52:35,000 --> 00:52:39,200
the scriptures.
And so we need to kind of

837
00:52:39,360 --> 00:52:44,040
reframe that narrative as well,
the guy that any man who is

838
00:52:44,040 --> 00:52:51,640
against polygamy, I think if he
fights against it, then that

839
00:52:51,640 --> 00:52:55,400
says a lot more about his, you
know, probably marriage

840
00:52:55,920 --> 00:53:02,800
situation than it says about, I
think it's just a revealing of

841
00:53:02,880 --> 00:53:04,280
the true condition of people's
hearts.

842
00:53:04,560 --> 00:53:06,040
No, I think, I think you're
right.

843
00:53:08,600 --> 00:53:10,880
Because I mean, you don't have
to lust a woman to marry her

844
00:53:10,880 --> 00:53:13,600
monogamously.
No, I highly recommend against.

845
00:53:13,600 --> 00:53:17,440
In fact, I think that, you know,
lust.

846
00:53:17,520 --> 00:53:20,960
We shouldn't objectify women for
any reason, even if it's a wife,

847
00:53:20,960 --> 00:53:24,200
even it's you know, that's
that's kind of a no brainer in

848
00:53:24,200 --> 00:53:29,920
my opinion.
But but lust, you can have a

849
00:53:30,120 --> 00:53:34,520
desire and attraction without
lust and anyone else otherwise.

850
00:53:36,440 --> 00:53:38,840
So they're they're less.
If they're married then I guess

851
00:53:38,840 --> 00:53:41,400
they are admitting that they
married for lust.

852
00:53:41,720 --> 00:53:43,560
I mean what else?
What else can you say?

853
00:53:44,200 --> 00:53:46,120
About that, yeah.
Yeah.

854
00:53:46,120 --> 00:53:47,400
No, I see where you're going
there.

855
00:53:47,840 --> 00:53:53,400
That makes sense, yeah.
All right, so a guy, Samuel

856
00:53:53,400 --> 00:53:57,640
Chapman writes in.
Polygamous groups throughout

857
00:53:57,640 --> 00:54:01,280
history have tended to offer a
better better deal for women

858
00:54:01,280 --> 00:54:03,120
than their monogamous
contemporaries.

859
00:54:03,600 --> 00:54:06,640
Friedman, Bergstrom, and Becker
state that this is not without

860
00:54:06,640 --> 00:54:10,320
reason, as in economic terms it
raises the demand for women

861
00:54:10,520 --> 00:54:12,720
while increasing the supply of
men.

862
00:54:13,600 --> 00:54:17,640
So simple supply demand
economics meaning that men who

863
00:54:17,920 --> 00:54:23,960
that men have to do more to
attract women and keep them, and

864
00:54:23,960 --> 00:54:27,640
are therefore inclined to treat
them better than under monogamy.

865
00:54:28,480 --> 00:54:32,840
Right.
No, you, you go to BYU, there is

866
00:54:32,840 --> 00:54:39,240
a, an absolute deficiency of men
and an absolute overabundance of

867
00:54:39,240 --> 00:54:41,960
women.
And so then what happens?

868
00:54:42,480 --> 00:54:47,440
Dudes can play, they can be
picky, they can wait, they can

869
00:54:47,440 --> 00:54:50,560
do, you know, they can do
whatever they want because

870
00:54:50,840 --> 00:54:53,720
because they're God, they're
they're the king in that

871
00:54:53,720 --> 00:54:57,080
environment.
And, you know, we need to, we

872
00:54:57,080 --> 00:55:00,920
need to reframe this.
Men should be the ones having to

873
00:55:01,000 --> 00:55:08,120
earn the trust in regard of
women and be able to, you know,

874
00:55:08,720 --> 00:55:10,920
have to have to merit those
blessings.

875
00:55:11,480 --> 00:55:15,840
Anyway, you got to kind of work
for it, right?

876
00:55:15,840 --> 00:55:19,840
I mean, showing up, showing up
is not going to just give you,

877
00:55:19,840 --> 00:55:21,960
get you a medal.
You, you're going to have to

878
00:55:22,680 --> 00:55:26,120
have to work at being a good guy
and, and a good provider and a

879
00:55:26,120 --> 00:55:29,240
good husband and, and, and all
those things that go along with

880
00:55:29,240 --> 00:55:32,240
that.
Despite our society's

881
00:55:32,240 --> 00:55:35,440
hypocritical objection to plural
marriage, serial polygamy is

882
00:55:35,440 --> 00:55:38,320
freely practiced and approved by
both civil governments and

883
00:55:38,320 --> 00:55:41,720
religious institutions.
Sadly, even the LDS Church

884
00:55:42,120 --> 00:55:45,000
leaving in their wake the
countless broken lives of

885
00:55:45,000 --> 00:55:50,240
deserted women and children.
Really, who is immoral here?

886
00:55:50,480 --> 00:55:53,640
What a shame.
Yeah, so.

887
00:55:54,400 --> 00:55:58,600
Now in Chapter 9, so that was
kind of some of the and looking

888
00:55:58,600 --> 00:56:02,600
at some of the negative aspects
of, of, of our cultural

889
00:56:05,040 --> 00:56:08,360
abandonment of polygamy.
Now Chapter 9, let's look at the

890
00:56:08,360 --> 00:56:11,240
benefits and the positive
aspects of plural marriage.

891
00:56:13,320 --> 00:56:16,880
This is from a lady named Doctor
Joyce Brothers.

892
00:56:17,600 --> 00:56:23,680
Interestingly, she said this on
Bill Maher's Comedies show in

893
00:56:23,680 --> 00:56:27,320
1994.
She says polygamy is not as bad

894
00:56:27,320 --> 00:56:29,800
as people think.
I would much rather be third in

895
00:56:29,800 --> 00:56:32,400
line of a good man than the only
wife of a jerk.

896
00:56:38,720 --> 00:56:40,680
Well.
Put Yeah, hard to argue with

897
00:56:40,680 --> 00:56:43,560
that.
So, based upon our study so far,

898
00:56:43,560 --> 00:56:45,960
the most obvious benefit of
polygamy is the provision it

899
00:56:45,960 --> 00:56:49,760
supplies to unmarried women who
desire marriage in children.

900
00:56:49,880 --> 00:56:52,880
No woman would be forced by
default to live in celibacy or

901
00:56:52,880 --> 00:56:56,200
live alone, or be required to
steal another woman's husband in

902
00:56:56,200 --> 00:56:59,440
order to have one herself.
Godly polygamy provides that all

903
00:56:59,440 --> 00:57:01,440
women who want a husband and
family can have them.

904
00:57:01,760 --> 00:57:04,320
It would assure that all women
are cherished and adored.

905
00:57:04,320 --> 00:57:06,400
The repercussions of such a
provision produce an

906
00:57:06,400 --> 00:57:12,200
incalculable windfall.
Adriana Blake, the attorney that

907
00:57:12,200 --> 00:57:14,720
we've quoted before, says plural
marriage would improve the

908
00:57:14,720 --> 00:57:17,360
quality of men.
The quality of men.

909
00:57:17,560 --> 00:57:20,320
Plural marriage would mean that
a woman would not have to settle

910
00:57:20,320 --> 00:57:22,440
for any man rather than none at
all.

911
00:57:22,720 --> 00:57:25,320
Her choices will not be confined
to those men who are single or

912
00:57:25,320 --> 00:57:27,320
divorced or willing to deceive
their wives.

913
00:57:27,880 --> 00:57:30,280
Assurance that she will have a
place within a family and a

914
00:57:30,280 --> 00:57:33,120
husband and father for her
children means a woman will have

915
00:57:33,120 --> 00:57:37,080
more and better choices.
The man who is kind, considerate

916
00:57:37,160 --> 00:57:40,800
and caring, gentle and loving is
the man who will attract women

917
00:57:40,800 --> 00:57:44,240
to his household.
Women will want to be with him.

918
00:57:45,520 --> 00:57:49,640
And if we look at section what
is it 121?

919
00:57:49,960 --> 00:57:53,920
It's describing it one of the
statements that it's talking

920
00:57:53,920 --> 00:57:55,720
about, and this is talking about
priesthood, but I think it

921
00:57:55,720 --> 00:57:58,720
applies to any form of
leadership or parenthood or, you

922
00:57:58,720 --> 00:58:02,120
know, husbandship.
And it basically the the the

923
00:58:02,120 --> 00:58:06,080
point that it makes is that the
the.

924
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933
00:58:40,160 --> 00:58:44,280
And if we look at section, what
is it 121?

934
00:58:44,560 --> 00:58:48,520
It's describing it one of the
statements that it's talking

935
00:58:48,520 --> 00:58:50,360
about, and this is talking about
priesthood, but I think it

936
00:58:50,360 --> 00:58:53,360
applies to any form of
leadership or parenthood or, you

937
00:58:53,360 --> 00:58:56,720
know, husbandship.
And it basically the, the, the

938
00:58:56,720 --> 00:59:04,520
point that it makes is that the,
the, what is the, the point I'm

939
00:59:04,520 --> 00:59:07,440
trying to make is I'm just, I
just blanked on.

940
00:59:07,440 --> 00:59:08,920
Oh, yeah, without compulsory
means.

941
00:59:08,920 --> 00:59:11,400
Sorry, my mind just went blank
for a second there.

942
00:59:11,800 --> 00:59:16,080
Without compulsory means, it, it
shall flow into thee forever and

943
00:59:16,080 --> 00:59:18,760
ever.
So without compulsory means

944
00:59:19,000 --> 00:59:21,160
means that there's no coercion
involved.

945
00:59:21,160 --> 00:59:25,560
It's just basically what the so
'cause reality is, if you want

946
00:59:25,560 --> 00:59:29,000
to have a celestial quality
marriage, you have to earn that.

947
00:59:29,200 --> 00:59:35,600
You have to BA celestial quality
person if you want a quality

948
00:59:35,600 --> 00:59:39,480
marriage.
And so so she's just talking

949
00:59:39,480 --> 00:59:44,920
about the IT.
It will be completely by desire,

950
00:59:44,920 --> 00:59:50,280
not by, you know, a lot of girls
stick in their marriage because

951
00:59:50,280 --> 00:59:53,880
they feel like they have to.
They've made a covenant or

952
00:59:53,880 --> 00:59:57,520
whatever.
And, and I'm not saying that

953
00:59:57,520 --> 01:00:00,680
covenant should not be taken
very seriously, but covenants

954
01:00:01,680 --> 01:00:04,160
are not unconditional.
I guess that's maybe a way to

955
01:00:04,160 --> 01:00:07,560
phrase that.
If a man is breaking his

956
01:00:07,560 --> 01:00:13,600
covenants, being an abusive
piece of garbage, the woman is

957
01:00:13,600 --> 01:00:17,840
not under obligation, covenantal
obligation to just be cool with

958
01:00:17,840 --> 01:00:20,760
that and accept that and and
just endure that forever.

959
01:00:21,280 --> 01:00:24,280
So with plural marriage
available, more women would be

960
01:00:24,280 --> 01:00:27,560
content within the marriage and
would remain because they'd have

961
01:00:27,560 --> 01:00:30,640
the opportunity to choose men
who would treat them well.

962
01:00:31,280 --> 01:00:34,040
Plural marriage means that if a
woman could share a husband, her

963
01:00:34,040 --> 01:00:35,720
chances are better of getting a
good one.

964
01:00:36,240 --> 01:00:39,920
The familiar line all the good
men are taken won't be valid

965
01:00:39,920 --> 01:00:42,600
anymore because the good men can
be shared.

966
01:00:43,480 --> 01:00:46,760
Rotten men won't get wives
because women won't have to

967
01:00:46,760 --> 01:00:50,080
settle for what's available.
Women will no longer fear that

968
01:00:50,080 --> 01:00:52,040
they will be left out of the
marriage lottery.

969
01:00:52,680 --> 01:00:55,160
They will not have to settle for
who is available rather than the

970
01:00:55,160 --> 01:00:59,040
chance of facing life alone.
Plural marriage could improve

971
01:00:59,040 --> 01:01:01,360
the quality of marriage.
The quality of marriage would

972
01:01:01,360 --> 01:01:04,800
improve the quality of life for
women by improving the caliber

973
01:01:04,800 --> 01:01:06,040
of the men they choose for
husbands.

974
01:01:06,360 --> 01:01:09,040
If men were allowed to have more
than one wife, then the good men

975
01:01:09,040 --> 01:01:12,680
who treated women well would be
the successful man in attracting

976
01:01:12,680 --> 01:01:15,280
wife.
Where we have a society that

977
01:01:15,280 --> 01:01:18,880
demands A1 to one relationship
for marriage, there simply are

978
01:01:18,880 --> 01:01:21,920
not enough men to go around
Whenever you have a demand that

979
01:01:21,920 --> 01:01:25,920
it see exceeds supply and
inflated value attaches to the

980
01:01:25,920 --> 01:01:29,120
item in short supply.
In the present case, the man.

981
01:01:29,640 --> 01:01:32,360
Unattached women compete with
each other to their detriment

982
01:01:32,360 --> 01:01:34,160
for a chance at the marriage
lottery.

983
01:01:34,760 --> 01:01:37,360
Those men who do not treat women
well will do without.

984
01:01:37,520 --> 01:01:40,200
There would be no reason for a
woman to stay in an abusive and

985
01:01:40,200 --> 01:01:43,600
punishing relationship.
She could leave free to find a

986
01:01:43,600 --> 01:01:45,920
household that would welcome and
cherish her.

987
01:01:48,080 --> 01:01:50,040
It just gives women more.
Argue with all that.

988
01:01:50,160 --> 01:01:52,640
Yeah, it, it, it just gives
women more options.

989
01:01:52,680 --> 01:01:56,440
I mean, I don't, I don't know
how, how else to put it right.

990
01:01:56,440 --> 01:02:00,280
I mean, look, I, I've had the
opportunity, not just my own,

991
01:02:01,080 --> 01:02:05,680
but to see other, you know,
polygamous households, right?

992
01:02:06,160 --> 01:02:08,600
And, and just talk about their
lived experience.

993
01:02:08,600 --> 01:02:10,760
And one, one of the things I
noticed is that one of the

994
01:02:10,760 --> 01:02:16,880
benefits are there's like not
just the opportunity to marry a

995
01:02:16,880 --> 01:02:21,080
better man, but an opportunity
to have different roles at

996
01:02:21,080 --> 01:02:23,040
different times of your life,
right?

997
01:02:23,800 --> 01:02:26,360
I talked to one woman who was
like, oh, I, I love it.

998
01:02:26,360 --> 01:02:29,520
She's like, right now I'm in a
stage of life where where my

999
01:02:29,520 --> 01:02:32,400
kids are grown and gone.
I can go to work, you know,

1000
01:02:32,400 --> 01:02:36,720
somebody else can, can do this.
And, and those roles can often

1001
01:02:36,720 --> 01:02:40,800
shift and rotate, right?
So what's interesting is that if

1002
01:02:40,800 --> 01:02:44,480
there was a slide that was sold
about, well, you can have it

1003
01:02:44,480 --> 01:02:47,600
all.
Well, you sure can, but it might

1004
01:02:47,600 --> 01:02:51,760
not necessarily be what was
peddled to you, right?

1005
01:02:52,920 --> 01:02:59,080
And, and so I'm, I'm, I'm always
very, very hesitant to like be

1006
01:02:59,080 --> 01:03:01,320
like, hey, come on, it's great
over here.

1007
01:03:01,480 --> 01:03:04,480
But I mean, there, there, there
are options, right?

1008
01:03:04,800 --> 01:03:08,720
And I, I think it's important
that those get get talked about

1009
01:03:08,720 --> 01:03:13,440
a little bit.
Well, and to me it's it

1010
01:03:13,800 --> 01:03:17,640
polygamy, you know, a polygamist
society does not mean that every

1011
01:03:17,640 --> 01:03:23,560
man is, is practicing it right.
You know, if, if times are

1012
01:03:23,560 --> 01:03:28,320
peaceful and you know, people
are healthy and there's a degree

1013
01:03:28,320 --> 01:03:32,200
of safety and stability and
security, and there may not be

1014
01:03:32,200 --> 01:03:36,800
an, A, a huge excess of women
who need a, a, a husband.

1015
01:03:37,720 --> 01:03:40,360
Like that's an actual ideal
situation, right?

1016
01:03:40,480 --> 01:03:46,040
That's, that's what we would all
strive for and, and hope for.

1017
01:03:46,400 --> 01:03:51,920
But the, and So what I would say
is people who maybe they would

1018
01:03:51,920 --> 01:03:57,000
never live the principle
personally, but they really

1019
01:03:57,000 --> 01:04:01,800
ought to never be opposed to
other people consensually living

1020
01:04:01,800 --> 01:04:03,800
it.
So even if it's something that

1021
01:04:03,800 --> 01:04:07,080
they are personally not
interested in, nobody's I'm not,

1022
01:04:07,080 --> 01:04:10,400
I certainly, I'm not suggesting
that we force anybody to do

1023
01:04:10,400 --> 01:04:13,240
something against their
conscience or what they want.

1024
01:04:14,240 --> 01:04:19,440
We need to provide agency to
those who may have different

1025
01:04:19,440 --> 01:04:23,000
choices or different values or
different beliefs, like let's be

1026
01:04:23,000 --> 01:04:27,080
respectful and honor that.
So we've talked about some of

1027
01:04:27,080 --> 01:04:29,760
the benefits that this system
provides for women.

1028
01:04:31,440 --> 01:04:34,400
It it just ensures that every
woman who wants to be married

1029
01:04:35,400 --> 01:04:37,520
can be married to a good man.
Right.

1030
01:04:38,240 --> 01:04:42,760
Alice Pivot restored headship.
The divine principle of headship

1031
01:04:42,760 --> 01:04:48,680
in the family has been destroyed
by Christendom's monogamy.

1032
01:04:49,160 --> 01:04:51,760
Men have been emasculated in
their roles as husbands and

1033
01:04:51,760 --> 01:04:54,320
fathers.
Their God ordained placement in

1034
01:04:54,320 --> 01:04:57,960
the home has been replaced by
supposed partnerships.

1035
01:04:58,360 --> 01:05:02,560
Divinely established patriarchy
has been usurped by what is, for

1036
01:05:02,560 --> 01:05:05,280
all practical purposes,
matriarchy.

1037
01:05:07,320 --> 01:05:10,200
The family will never function
as designed by God until there

1038
01:05:10,200 --> 01:05:12,200
is a return to biblical
patriarchy.

1039
01:05:13,360 --> 01:05:16,800
As unpopular as this is today,
this is God's order of things.

1040
01:05:17,800 --> 01:05:19,960
I mean, this is something
everybody understood for

1041
01:05:19,960 --> 01:05:23,760
generations, but somehow we've
forgotten in the last

1042
01:05:24,400 --> 01:05:27,680
generation.
There is nothing quite like

1043
01:05:27,680 --> 01:05:32,000
polygamy to emphasize this
crucial aspect of headship.

1044
01:05:33,920 --> 01:05:36,280
He quotes another author, Tom
Shipley.

1045
01:05:36,480 --> 01:05:40,840
The unbiblical monogamy only
doctrine is an irreconcilable

1046
01:05:40,840 --> 01:05:43,720
conflict with the Bible's
teaching of the headship of the

1047
01:05:43,720 --> 01:05:46,400
father and husband.
Male headship, when legally

1048
01:05:46,400 --> 01:05:49,760
enforced monogamy is in effect,
is a delusive fiction.

1049
01:05:50,120 --> 01:05:53,720
Legally enforced monogamy is in
operation, a logical and de

1050
01:05:53,720 --> 01:05:57,120
facto negation of the hierarchy
of the biblical family.

1051
01:05:57,640 --> 01:06:01,960
A patriarchal law order without
polygamy is patriarchal in name

1052
01:06:01,960 --> 01:06:05,160
only.
Coligeny is patriarchy in

1053
01:06:05,160 --> 01:06:11,360
action?
So, OK, I, I want to, I want to

1054
01:06:11,360 --> 01:06:14,720
unpack something here real quick
and this is going to be a side

1055
01:06:14,720 --> 01:06:19,800
tangent, but I feel like it's
important pertaining to this

1056
01:06:19,800 --> 01:06:24,840
part of the conversation.
The term patriarchy today is

1057
01:06:24,840 --> 01:06:27,880
loaded, right?
I mean, it's, it's one of those

1058
01:06:27,880 --> 01:06:31,240
things.
So I want to as a guy who

1059
01:06:31,240 --> 01:06:35,640
believes in plural marriage, as
a guy who who says, hey, this is

1060
01:06:36,000 --> 01:06:40,360
this is good and there is a
divine order to the family with,

1061
01:06:40,360 --> 01:06:42,800
with the husband standing at the
head of the family.

1062
01:06:43,880 --> 01:06:49,480
What does when when you hear the
word patriarchy, you tell me

1063
01:06:49,480 --> 01:06:52,480
what you think that looks like
in a healthy situation?

1064
01:06:56,800 --> 01:06:59,400
You know, there's all these
jokes about how, you know, the

1065
01:06:59,400 --> 01:07:02,200
husband is the head, but the
wife is the neck.

1066
01:07:04,920 --> 01:07:08,200
You know, there's all these
jokes about how basically, you

1067
01:07:08,200 --> 01:07:13,840
know, you can't ever expect that
you're, you're, you'll be able

1068
01:07:13,840 --> 01:07:17,480
to preside in your home because
your wife will wear the pants.

1069
01:07:17,640 --> 01:07:20,000
You know, there's different
phrases and, and kind of

1070
01:07:20,000 --> 01:07:22,840
expressions in our, in our kind
of vernacular, but, but

1071
01:07:22,840 --> 01:07:26,800
essentially they all mean the
same thing, which is that, you

1072
01:07:26,800 --> 01:07:30,720
know, women just allow men to
think that they're in charge.

1073
01:07:32,120 --> 01:07:35,520
And this is I, I, I don't, I, I
don't think anybody listening

1074
01:07:35,520 --> 01:07:38,080
can deny this.
This is very much just as much

1075
01:07:38,080 --> 01:07:42,000
in the LDS Church as it is in
Christianity as it is in

1076
01:07:42,000 --> 01:07:45,160
secular.
Like everybody, women have been

1077
01:07:45,160 --> 01:07:49,240
exalted at, at the cost, at what
cost?

1078
01:07:49,240 --> 01:07:54,200
At the detriment of men.
And you know, I love women.

1079
01:07:54,720 --> 01:07:56,840
I'm not suggesting that we don't
exalt women.

1080
01:07:56,840 --> 01:08:00,160
I'm not suggesting that that,
you know, that this was even an

1081
01:08:00,160 --> 01:08:03,600
intentional or a nefariously
motivated thing that women have

1082
01:08:03,600 --> 01:08:06,880
done.
But it is a direct consequence

1083
01:08:07,440 --> 01:08:10,520
of abandoning biblical
patriarchy, the patriarchal

1084
01:08:10,520 --> 01:08:14,080
order, and certainly not what
Brigham and Joseph Smith and

1085
01:08:14,080 --> 01:08:16,920
John Taylor in the early Mormon
leaders were, were after.

1086
01:08:17,560 --> 01:08:21,840
They would just short shudder at
the modern state of the church

1087
01:08:21,840 --> 01:08:26,399
and men and women and families.
But going back to your question,

1088
01:08:26,399 --> 01:08:29,640
what do I think that a
patriarchal, a healthy

1089
01:08:29,640 --> 01:08:36,479
patriarchal system looks like?
It looks like a man who does not

1090
01:08:36,479 --> 01:08:41,640
view his role as a husband, as a
head of his household, as

1091
01:08:41,720 --> 01:08:49,720
something to do that gives him
coercive power over anybody

1092
01:08:49,720 --> 01:08:54,920
else.
It makes him responsible to make

1093
01:08:54,920 --> 01:08:58,359
sure that everybody has a voice
and every voice gets heard.

1094
01:08:58,560 --> 01:09:03,000
It makes him the primary
responsible party of who is

1095
01:09:03,000 --> 01:09:07,040
going to settle disputes.
You know, cuz there's a lot of

1096
01:09:07,040 --> 01:09:11,279
times that there's, there's
conflict there.

1097
01:09:11,319 --> 01:09:15,160
You know, kids are arguing, a
wife is arguing with, you know,

1098
01:09:15,399 --> 01:09:18,240
if it's a plural situation,
wives might be arguing.

1099
01:09:18,479 --> 01:09:22,640
It's the role of a husband to be
an impartial arbiter that who

1100
01:09:22,640 --> 01:09:27,399
loves both parties, allows
everything to be said and who

1101
01:09:27,399 --> 01:09:30,319
has earned the confidence of his
wives to the point where he can,

1102
01:09:30,800 --> 01:09:34,800
can just basically make a
decision and, and both parties

1103
01:09:34,800 --> 01:09:37,160
will accept it because he is
that reliable.

1104
01:09:37,160 --> 01:09:40,279
He has earned that trust and is
worthy of their trust.

1105
01:09:40,680 --> 01:09:45,240
So I don't know, I, I didn't
have like a succinct answer

1106
01:09:45,240 --> 01:09:46,399
prepared.
That was a good question.

1107
01:09:46,399 --> 01:09:49,240
But does that kind of answer
what you're, you know, give,

1108
01:09:49,240 --> 01:09:51,880
give?
I, I think so.

1109
01:09:52,040 --> 01:09:54,960
I think so.
And, and look, I'm going to talk

1110
01:09:54,960 --> 01:10:00,000
about this now from a very
Mormon perspective, because I

1111
01:10:00,000 --> 01:10:09,840
feel like Mormons have a, a
proper view of this to frame, to

1112
01:10:09,840 --> 01:10:17,120
frame it in.
Every time a man gets priesthood

1113
01:10:17,120 --> 01:10:22,480
or priesthood advancement into
another office, almost always it

1114
01:10:22,480 --> 01:10:28,320
isn't accompanied by more
responsibility, more service,

1115
01:10:29,440 --> 01:10:33,280
greater service, more charity,
all those things.

1116
01:10:34,640 --> 01:10:38,840
Now in in Mormonism, we
understand that the term

1117
01:10:38,840 --> 01:10:43,080
patriarchy or patriarchal is
kind of a priesthood title,

1118
01:10:43,880 --> 01:10:45,120
right?
Yes.

1119
01:10:45,880 --> 01:10:53,560
With that being said, it's one
of the higher, higher positions

1120
01:10:53,560 --> 01:10:56,240
within the priesthood, I guess,
if that makes sense.

1121
01:10:56,280 --> 01:11:03,280
Oh yeah.
So if the system has been with

1122
01:11:03,280 --> 01:11:07,200
patriarchal IR, excuse me,
priesthood advancement, that

1123
01:11:07,280 --> 01:11:11,480
there comes more service with
every step.

1124
01:11:12,160 --> 01:11:15,840
Why would that be any different?
So as I think about, you know

1125
01:11:15,840 --> 01:11:18,080
what, what would patriarchy look
like?

1126
01:11:18,080 --> 01:11:22,240
And it's something I try hard to
instill and and practice here

1127
01:11:22,240 --> 01:11:24,720
here in my family.
I'm not always successful.

1128
01:11:24,720 --> 01:11:31,800
I try very hard is an idea of
how can I serve my family today,

1129
01:11:32,480 --> 01:11:35,560
right?
Not you're simply here for my

1130
01:11:35,560 --> 01:11:42,000
own self aggrandizement, not
from any showy, nasty, weird

1131
01:11:42,000 --> 01:11:46,400
sort of a way, but more from how
can I make these people I love

1132
01:11:46,400 --> 01:11:51,200
in my home even more happy today
than they were yesterday?

1133
01:11:52,800 --> 01:11:57,040
And approach it from a very
service oriented mindset, a a

1134
01:11:59,920 --> 01:12:04,600
provider and a protector and and
all those things that go along

1135
01:12:04,600 --> 01:12:07,160
with it.
And I think what we've done is

1136
01:12:07,160 --> 01:12:12,920
we've allowed kind of that
radical feminist side of this

1137
01:12:12,920 --> 01:12:19,000
equation to be able to take and
redefine what that means to be a

1138
01:12:19,000 --> 01:12:22,520
patriarch in your own home or
patriarchy in general.

1139
01:12:23,160 --> 01:12:26,440
And, and it's one of those
things that I think deserves

1140
01:12:26,440 --> 01:12:31,600
some attention and maybe to have
it defined back to what I

1141
01:12:31,600 --> 01:12:37,440
believe God intended it to be,
which was I'm just here to serve

1142
01:12:37,440 --> 01:12:40,480
and love my family, no matter
how many wives or children are

1143
01:12:40,480 --> 01:12:42,880
there.
That's my job as the patriarch

1144
01:12:42,880 --> 01:12:46,720
within my home.
God tells us very succinctly in

1145
01:12:46,720 --> 01:12:50,480
the Pearl of great price.
My work in my glory is to bring

1146
01:12:50,480 --> 01:12:55,200
to pass the immortality and
eternal life of man right now.

1147
01:12:55,200 --> 01:13:03,160
If that's the the ultimate
patriarchs goal, I think as

1148
01:13:03,160 --> 01:13:06,480
humans that's what we should
pattern that after as human men

1149
01:13:07,000 --> 01:13:10,120
if if we seek to be a patriarch
in our own home.

1150
01:13:12,320 --> 01:13:18,240
Yeah, I would say that the the
the first step that led to

1151
01:13:18,240 --> 01:13:24,000
getting so far off the path off
golf course is forgetting the

1152
01:13:24,000 --> 01:13:26,600
true nature of leadership and
headship.

1153
01:13:27,320 --> 01:13:31,480
And when you start equating
headship with a positional type

1154
01:13:31,480 --> 01:13:36,720
of authority that gives you, you
know, license to give orders and

1155
01:13:36,720 --> 01:13:42,040
expect to be obeyed and gives
you control and compulsive

1156
01:13:42,240 --> 01:13:46,640
influence over those around you.
Like whether that's

1157
01:13:46,640 --> 01:13:51,880
ecclesiastical or familial or
political or any of that, like

1158
01:13:52,040 --> 01:13:54,880
that is that is where things
went off the ropes.

1159
01:13:54,880 --> 01:13:58,360
That is where the problem I
think originates with all of

1160
01:13:58,360 --> 01:14:01,440
these things.
So, you know, if we're wanting

1161
01:14:01,440 --> 01:14:05,640
to fix things, we need to heal
the proper perspective and

1162
01:14:05,640 --> 01:14:10,520
definition of patriarchy, which
which requires us to heal and,

1163
01:14:10,520 --> 01:14:15,120
and gain the proper perspective
of polygamy and kind of go hand

1164
01:14:15,120 --> 01:14:22,320
in hand and then we just need to
apply it.

1165
01:14:23,280 --> 01:14:28,520
So, yeah, I was going to say if,
if, if anybody thinks that

1166
01:14:28,520 --> 01:14:31,840
plural marriage is all about the
dude just barking out orders.

1167
01:14:32,400 --> 01:14:35,960
Come hang out at my house,
right, Right.

1168
01:14:36,720 --> 01:14:40,600
Come, come hang out at my house,
right, Right.

1169
01:14:40,840 --> 01:14:43,880
It doesn't work that way.
There's more of the girls than

1170
01:14:43,880 --> 01:14:46,920
there are of me.
And and here's.

1171
01:14:46,920 --> 01:14:51,400
Nevertheless, nevertheless, you
have a responsibility that if

1172
01:14:51,400 --> 01:14:55,440
they're if they if they are
maybe perhaps being influenced

1173
01:14:55,440 --> 01:14:58,800
by excessive emotion or if
they're being influenced by the

1174
01:14:59,600 --> 01:15:02,080
like you were there to protect
them essentially from

1175
01:15:02,080 --> 01:15:07,800
themselves, right.
And and so yeah, like that, that

1176
01:15:07,800 --> 01:15:12,040
sword cuts both directions.
And, you know, and I, I just

1177
01:15:12,040 --> 01:15:17,560
don't understand a woman, how a
woman would not want a dude to

1178
01:15:17,560 --> 01:15:23,000
protect her from getting out of,
you know, excessively

1179
01:15:23,000 --> 01:15:25,520
emotionally involved with this
or that and, and that sort of

1180
01:15:25,520 --> 01:15:26,800
thing.
So yeah, I.

1181
01:15:27,560 --> 01:15:29,720
And, and, and you're 100%
correct, right?

1182
01:15:29,720 --> 01:15:33,120
And this is where we could have
a conversation.

1183
01:15:33,120 --> 01:15:36,000
We won't 'cause it would take
too long, but a conversation

1184
01:15:36,000 --> 01:15:39,760
about, about how the divine
feminine and the divine

1185
01:15:41,080 --> 01:15:45,560
masculine really do come into
balance, right?

1186
01:15:47,160 --> 01:15:53,080
I'll, I'll just use use use my
my case as an example.

1187
01:15:53,760 --> 01:15:58,640
We came out here to Missouri to
visit and we went back home to

1188
01:15:58,640 --> 01:16:00,880
Utah.
And I'm like, yeah, I think, I

1189
01:16:00,880 --> 01:16:02,920
think we can do this right.
I think this will work.

1190
01:16:03,200 --> 01:16:06,640
Let's give it a good year.
Let's settle everything down.

1191
01:16:07,040 --> 01:16:11,240
And let's you know, it was a
very rational, it was a very

1192
01:16:13,080 --> 01:16:17,120
orderly, methodical man, right?
Methodical, like the way most

1193
01:16:17,120 --> 01:16:20,320
dudes like to do it, right?
Yep.

1194
01:16:20,480 --> 01:16:23,800
Girls were feeling something
completely different than I was

1195
01:16:24,240 --> 01:16:27,600
completely different, right.
And I was holding my ground.

1196
01:16:27,600 --> 01:16:31,560
I'm like, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, this is what we're

1197
01:16:31,560 --> 01:16:35,400
going to do, right?
And there was one night they

1198
01:16:35,400 --> 01:16:38,720
just, I, I'd finished up a
podcast and they came up to the,

1199
01:16:38,720 --> 01:16:42,440
to that upstairs office where I
had, and they just sat me down

1200
01:16:42,440 --> 01:16:47,440
and they just said, we are
really feeling like we are,

1201
01:16:47,720 --> 01:16:50,880
we're to go sooner.
And I was hesitant.

1202
01:16:50,880 --> 01:16:54,760
I was like, no, no, I, you know,
this is the orderly exit, right?

1203
01:16:55,120 --> 01:16:59,600
And in my dude brain, right,
this rational makes sense,

1204
01:16:59,640 --> 01:17:03,000
whatever.
But in that case, they weren't

1205
01:17:03,000 --> 01:17:05,960
tuned to something that I wasn't
right.

1206
01:17:06,480 --> 01:17:10,760
And after I prayed about it
again, I was like, Oh, they got

1207
01:17:10,760 --> 01:17:14,240
something here right now.
There's been times where, where,

1208
01:17:14,640 --> 01:17:17,720
where, you know, there is that
thing about, OK, too much

1209
01:17:17,720 --> 01:17:19,520
emotion.
Let's inject some logic into

1210
01:17:19,520 --> 01:17:22,800
this thing, right?
But, but those are the kind of

1211
01:17:22,800 --> 01:17:27,440
balances you want, right?
And, and that can happen in a

1212
01:17:27,440 --> 01:17:31,080
plural, plural marriage.
I've seen it it it does work

1213
01:17:31,080 --> 01:17:34,240
still so.
Yeah.

1214
01:17:34,480 --> 01:17:39,400
Well, I mean, at A, at a really
practical level, it, you know,

1215
01:17:39,400 --> 01:17:43,120
if this is an eternal principle,
which I believe it is there,

1216
01:17:43,840 --> 01:17:51,400
then if it's true, then it will
be supported by reason, by

1217
01:17:51,600 --> 01:17:55,840
practical experience, by the
Holy Spirit within us that, you

1218
01:17:55,840 --> 01:17:59,000
know, the, the, the, the, the
whisperings of the Holy Ghost to

1219
01:17:59,000 --> 01:18:03,880
our, our own heart.
Like if it's true, we then we

1220
01:18:03,880 --> 01:18:06,320
can have confidence in those
realities.

1221
01:18:06,760 --> 01:18:16,040
So the the idea of I just don't
understand.

1222
01:18:16,480 --> 01:18:21,800
Well, I do understand there are
those who want to exercise

1223
01:18:21,800 --> 01:18:28,720
authority over the over other
and you know, they might see

1224
01:18:29,360 --> 01:18:33,400
polygamy as an Ave. to be able
to, you know, have all their

1225
01:18:33,440 --> 01:18:37,280
wildest dreams come true of
exercising unrighteous dominion

1226
01:18:37,280 --> 01:18:39,200
over others.
And we've seen horror stories

1227
01:18:39,200 --> 01:18:40,720
like that with Warren Jeffs and
whatnot.

1228
01:18:41,080 --> 01:18:44,040
But it's not the practice.
It's the man.

1229
01:18:44,320 --> 01:18:47,400
It's not bigamy that is the
culprit in that situation.

1230
01:18:47,400 --> 01:18:52,080
It's a fallen and broken and
evil perspective of leadership

1231
01:18:52,080 --> 01:18:55,560
and headship and and you know,
priesthood and all of it.

1232
01:18:56,040 --> 01:19:06,320
So if we can basically get over
our emotional response to

1233
01:19:06,320 --> 01:19:12,920
polygamy, we have a chance of
being able to heal some of these

1234
01:19:13,880 --> 01:19:17,160
things that have been wrong with
our society forever, for

1235
01:19:17,160 --> 01:19:20,840
generations now.
So, you know, and just to kind

1236
01:19:20,840 --> 01:19:24,440
of finish up with this chapter
here, it talks about greater

1237
01:19:24,440 --> 01:19:27,080
family stability, which totally
benefits children.

1238
01:19:29,440 --> 01:19:34,480
It's a it's a safe haven for
older wives, for widows.

1239
01:19:36,040 --> 01:19:38,040
I'm just going to read this.
It says the plural marriage

1240
01:19:38,040 --> 01:19:40,520
household can provide a safe
haven as well as solace for a

1241
01:19:40,520 --> 01:19:43,160
woman as she gets older.
She will not be left alone

1242
01:19:43,600 --> 01:19:46,080
through divorce or or if she
becomes a widow because there's

1243
01:19:46,080 --> 01:19:48,760
no need for another wife to
displace her in a divorce

1244
01:19:48,760 --> 01:19:50,400
situation.
She'll have her own place within

1245
01:19:50,400 --> 01:19:52,560
the household.
Instead of being rejected, she

1246
01:19:52,560 --> 01:19:54,720
assumes a position of respect
within the family.

1247
01:19:56,080 --> 01:19:58,160
True benefit of plural marriage
is available for the widow.

1248
01:19:58,160 --> 01:20:01,320
She is not the only widow.
Wives have been widowed together

1249
01:20:02,360 --> 01:20:06,400
like you know.
You know, in hopefully like 50

1250
01:20:06,400 --> 01:20:10,320
years, when it's your time to
go, Dave, your ladies will not

1251
01:20:10,320 --> 01:20:15,880
have to mourn your loss alone.
They'll have each other and be

1252
01:20:15,880 --> 01:20:18,360
together.
With so two of the biggest

1253
01:20:18,360 --> 01:20:21,160
problems for widows, loneliness
and depression will have less

1254
01:20:21,160 --> 01:20:23,000
opportunity to develop.
For the wise, we'll have each

1255
01:20:23,000 --> 01:20:24,720
other.
Her sister and marriage will be

1256
01:20:24,720 --> 01:20:26,880
there to support her.
She will not face these times

1257
01:20:26,880 --> 01:20:29,080
alone.
If the husband had been ailing

1258
01:20:29,080 --> 01:20:31,840
for some time before his death,
all of the burden of care will

1259
01:20:31,840 --> 01:20:34,000
not have fallen on the shoulders
of one person.

1260
01:20:34,480 --> 01:20:36,880
The burden of the ailing spouse
will have been shared.

1261
01:20:38,000 --> 01:20:45,440
So anyway, there's one last
chapter and it's pretty short.

1262
01:20:45,560 --> 01:20:49,360
I'm going to read maybe four or
five paragraphs from it.

1263
01:20:50,160 --> 01:20:52,680
This is his kind of closing
argument.

1264
01:20:52,960 --> 01:20:56,160
And then the the index has like
a lot of the sort or it's not

1265
01:20:56,320 --> 01:21:00,080
the appendices, like this whole
book is less than 100 pages

1266
01:21:00,080 --> 01:21:01,520
long.
It's more like a big pamphlet.

1267
01:21:01,520 --> 01:21:05,400
But then he has all of the
source documents that he's

1268
01:21:05,600 --> 01:21:08,600
inciting from in the second-half
of this book, so.

1269
01:21:08,600 --> 01:21:15,440
That's a lot of sources, yeah.
So chapter 10 who is immoral?

1270
01:21:17,120 --> 01:21:20,240
The single woman's genuine need
for a husband can't be patched

1271
01:21:20,240 --> 01:21:23,000
away with a singles ministry or
a lady's fellowship.

1272
01:21:23,240 --> 01:21:25,600
She still goes home to face life
alone.

1273
01:21:27,040 --> 01:21:29,840
The mother who is a single
parent will not have her basic

1274
01:21:29,840 --> 01:21:34,680
needs met by church, daycare,
Sunday school, Awana's vacation

1275
01:21:34,680 --> 01:21:37,600
Bible school, or even by
assigning her someone to

1276
01:21:37,600 --> 01:21:40,040
occasionally visit and help out
around the house.

1277
01:21:41,000 --> 01:21:44,880
Neither will her most
fundamental needs be met by WIC,

1278
01:21:44,960 --> 01:21:46,960
welfare, or other social
services.

1279
01:21:47,360 --> 01:21:49,840
These are all band aids on a
serious wound.

1280
01:21:49,920 --> 01:21:52,480
She needs a husband.
Her children need a father.

1281
01:21:53,080 --> 01:21:56,000
The social and religious culture
that denies a woman the right to

1282
01:21:56,000 --> 01:21:58,880
marry is the actual cause of the
single woman and the single

1283
01:21:58,880 --> 01:22:02,600
mother's problems at the outset.
This system then sets about to

1284
01:22:02,600 --> 01:22:06,120
dress the very wound that they
have inflicted.

1285
01:22:06,680 --> 01:22:08,680
Just who is immoral in these
situations?

1286
01:22:09,200 --> 01:22:11,560
A man who would love a woman and
marry her?

1287
01:22:12,120 --> 01:22:15,080
A man who would cherish, care
for, and protect her?

1288
01:22:15,480 --> 01:22:17,960
A man who would be a loving and
dedicated father to her

1289
01:22:17,960 --> 01:22:19,880
children.
Are these the immoral ones?

1290
01:22:20,360 --> 01:22:24,680
Or is it an entire society,
religious and secular, who is

1291
01:22:24,680 --> 01:22:27,560
immoral?
A society who denies her the

1292
01:22:27,600 --> 01:22:30,600
open, honest and respectable
right to have a husband?

1293
01:22:31,400 --> 01:22:35,800
Who really is immoral?
Here Jesus Himself railed

1294
01:22:35,800 --> 01:22:37,800
against the religious leaders of
his day.

1295
01:22:38,280 --> 01:22:41,160
Woe unto you scribes and
Pharisees, hypocrites.

1296
01:22:41,840 --> 01:22:44,760
He indicted them for having
omitted the wait.

1297
01:22:44,760 --> 01:22:47,560
Here, matters of the law,
judgement, mercy, and faith.

1298
01:22:48,560 --> 01:22:51,160
So should our social and
religious leaders be called into

1299
01:22:51,160 --> 01:22:53,960
account for their immoral
actions.

1300
01:22:55,840 --> 01:22:58,640
First Timothy chapter 4 verses
one through 3 states.

1301
01:22:59,080 --> 01:23:02,760
Now the Spirit speaks expressly
that in the latter times some

1302
01:23:02,760 --> 01:23:06,240
shall depart from the faith,
giving heed to seducing spirits

1303
01:23:06,240 --> 01:23:10,240
and doctrines of devils,
speaking lies in hypocrisy,

1304
01:23:10,600 --> 01:23:15,680
having their conscience seared
with a hot iron, forbidding to

1305
01:23:15,680 --> 01:23:21,000
Mary.
So the unscriptural limiting of

1306
01:23:21,000 --> 01:23:23,600
marriage to monogamy forbids the
scriptural marriage of many

1307
01:23:23,600 --> 01:23:25,480
women.
According to Paul, this sad and

1308
01:23:25,480 --> 01:23:27,640
ungodly teaching is a doctrine
of devils.

1309
01:23:27,720 --> 01:23:31,880
Shame on Christendom and
Mormondum for their spiritual

1310
01:23:31,880 --> 01:23:34,960
arrogance and evil presumption
to condemn what God Himself has

1311
01:23:34,960 --> 01:23:38,320
ordained, and for the tremendous
immoral repercussions of their

1312
01:23:38,320 --> 01:23:41,840
godless teaching.
Wow.

1313
01:23:42,880 --> 01:23:47,520
In conclusion, the last one is
again from Adriana Blake, the

1314
01:23:47,520 --> 01:23:50,880
attorney.
She says the decision to enter a

1315
01:23:50,880 --> 01:23:53,000
plural marriage will require
courage.

1316
01:23:53,680 --> 01:23:55,680
Friends and family may be
discouraging.

1317
01:23:56,080 --> 01:23:58,600
It seems to be an element of
human nature that we are not

1318
01:23:58,600 --> 01:24:01,760
willing to allow our friends to
seek a solution to a problem in

1319
01:24:01,760 --> 01:24:04,800
their lives that is different
from the one we have chosen for

1320
01:24:04,800 --> 01:24:08,120
ourselves.
The first Cavalry men through

1321
01:24:08,120 --> 01:24:11,120
the pass is the one that gets
all the arrows, goes the old

1322
01:24:11,120 --> 01:24:14,400
saying.
Pioneers in any endeavor are

1323
01:24:14,400 --> 01:24:18,240
always targets for criticism.
However, the rewards can be

1324
01:24:18,240 --> 01:24:20,520
great.
Perhaps this book will make your

1325
01:24:20,520 --> 01:24:23,720
choices and your decision easier
because he's basically

1326
01:24:23,720 --> 01:24:29,040
advocating you know what?
Oh, there's all sorts of legal

1327
01:24:29,080 --> 01:24:35,080
and other risks and hazards.
This is a great omission.

1328
01:24:35,080 --> 01:24:39,400
This is a great sin of omission
and we need to repent as a

1329
01:24:39,400 --> 01:24:41,760
people so.
Absolutely.

1330
01:24:42,600 --> 01:24:47,960
You know, I, I'll say this too,
I, I don't, while certainly

1331
01:24:47,960 --> 01:24:53,800
there's some, some legal
intricacies, right, that have to

1332
01:24:53,800 --> 01:24:58,680
be navigated, right, that I've,
that I've dealt with as far as,

1333
01:24:58,680 --> 01:25:02,440
you know, OK, if there's a will,
that sort of thing, spelling

1334
01:25:02,440 --> 01:25:06,440
that out, beneficiaries on life
insurance policies, those sorts

1335
01:25:06,440 --> 01:25:11,200
of things, by and large, it, the
legalities aren't what they used

1336
01:25:11,200 --> 01:25:13,240
to be.
And quite frankly, none of us

1337
01:25:13,240 --> 01:25:17,960
these days really have to worry
about anyone coming to take our

1338
01:25:17,960 --> 01:25:20,720
kids over this right?
If you're not a dirtbag.

1339
01:25:20,720 --> 01:25:24,520
And you're not days anymore.
Right, right.

1340
01:25:24,520 --> 01:25:27,160
If you're not a dirtbag and
you're not abusing your kids,

1341
01:25:27,360 --> 01:25:29,440
chances are you're going to be
just fine.

1342
01:25:31,280 --> 01:25:35,720
And likewise, and you know, this
is something I saw personally

1343
01:25:35,720 --> 01:25:42,160
with with both of my wives was
there is the the fiercest push

1344
01:25:42,160 --> 01:25:45,400
back will come from those who
are closer to you, closest to

1345
01:25:45,400 --> 01:25:48,120
you.
That's just what it is.

1346
01:25:50,920 --> 01:25:59,450
But I'll say this.
One of my mother in

1347
01:26:14,240 --> 01:26:17,800
I did enjoy it a little bit that
for six hours because I could

1348
01:26:17,800 --> 01:26:21,400
tell everything was really
awkward for her.

1349
01:26:22,720 --> 01:26:28,480
But afterwards, I think there
was a softening, right?

1350
01:26:28,520 --> 01:26:34,520
There was a softening that
happened towards towards the

1351
01:26:34,520 --> 01:26:37,480
other wife that was I didn't see
coming, right?

1352
01:26:37,480 --> 01:26:39,800
I'm not saying everybody's the
best of friends or whatever

1353
01:26:39,800 --> 01:26:44,000
right now, but typically once
somebody that cares about you

1354
01:26:44,000 --> 01:26:47,320
finds that, hey, this is what
makes me happy, right?

1355
01:26:47,320 --> 01:26:53,480
And this is, you know, what I
have chosen, those things tend

1356
01:26:53,480 --> 01:26:59,200
to loosen up a little bit.
And so I would just say if, if

1357
01:26:59,200 --> 01:27:01,960
you're pulled in this direction,
go in with your eyes wide open,

1358
01:27:02,000 --> 01:27:04,920
right?
Don't, don't have on rolls, rose

1359
01:27:04,920 --> 01:27:07,680
colored glasses and think, oh,
everything will just fall into

1360
01:27:07,680 --> 01:27:10,640
place and it'll be OK and, and
whatnot.

1361
01:27:10,640 --> 01:27:16,880
Understand that if you're a dude
who who feels this, feels that

1362
01:27:16,880 --> 01:27:20,520
call from the correct place,
which is your heart, gentlemen,

1363
01:27:21,920 --> 01:27:26,880
and you're, you know, a woman
who, who desires this form of

1364
01:27:26,880 --> 01:27:28,920
life.
I mean, go for it.

1365
01:27:28,920 --> 01:27:30,640
We only get one shot at this
thing.

1366
01:27:32,600 --> 01:27:34,960
And if, if it's what makes you
happy, great.

1367
01:27:35,280 --> 01:27:39,120
And to those who who think, you
know, don't want to do this, I'm

1368
01:27:39,120 --> 01:27:40,880
not telling you you have to do
it.

1369
01:27:40,880 --> 01:27:45,160
I'm not telling you you even
have to condone my lifestyle.

1370
01:27:45,160 --> 01:27:48,640
I don't care.
I'm secure enough in my, in what

1371
01:27:48,640 --> 01:27:51,440
I've done.
And so this shouldn't be a

1372
01:27:51,440 --> 01:27:54,280
threat to anybody who doesn't
want to join in.

1373
01:27:54,280 --> 01:27:59,440
We're not, we are not out there
banging for litigation to make

1374
01:27:59,440 --> 01:28:01,880
this the only valid marriage
system.

1375
01:28:01,880 --> 01:28:05,960
That's not what we're out for.
We just want to live and, and be

1376
01:28:05,960 --> 01:28:11,200
left alone to, to live to the
dictates of our own conscience.

1377
01:28:11,200 --> 01:28:14,480
I guess right at the end of the
day, that's, that's just what

1378
01:28:14,480 --> 01:28:18,480
we're after.
But I think I think the times

1379
01:28:18,480 --> 01:28:22,320
are coming where this will be
more socially accepted than ever

1380
01:28:22,320 --> 01:28:23,560
before.
So.

1381
01:28:23,720 --> 01:28:28,520
So, yeah, marriage let's let's
look at the term because I mean,

1382
01:28:28,520 --> 01:28:31,800
it's, it's one of those things
that most people like you don't

1383
01:28:31,800 --> 01:28:35,160
need to define or qualify the
term marriage because it's just

1384
01:28:35,160 --> 01:28:37,640
familiar and like ubiquitous,
right?

1385
01:28:37,720 --> 01:28:40,920
It's everywhere.
However, living in the modern

1386
01:28:40,920 --> 01:28:44,280
USA, we have certain traditions
that have become taken for

1387
01:28:44,280 --> 01:28:47,200
granted as being required for a
marriage to be legitimate.

1388
01:28:48,280 --> 01:28:51,160
Specifically, I'm talking about
marriage licenses.

1389
01:28:52,520 --> 01:28:55,840
Have you ever considered the
questions, Are marriage licenses

1390
01:28:55,840 --> 01:28:58,640
required for a marriage to be a
legitimate in God's eyes?

1391
01:28:59,320 --> 01:29:02,960
No.
Are marriage licenses an eternal

1392
01:29:02,960 --> 01:29:07,000
principle?
So let's look at a brief let's

1393
01:29:07,080 --> 01:29:09,040
let's brief look into the
history and development of

1394
01:29:09,040 --> 01:29:10,760
marriage.
It's kind of surprising if you

1395
01:29:10,760 --> 01:29:12,480
haven't studied and and thought
about this before.

1396
01:29:12,480 --> 01:29:16,080
So in the LDS church, at least
since 1890, the standard for

1397
01:29:16,080 --> 01:29:18,240
whether or not a marriage is
regarded as legitimate is

1398
01:29:18,240 --> 01:29:20,720
whether a couple possesses a
government issued marriage

1399
01:29:20,720 --> 01:29:22,840
license, at least within the
USA.

1400
01:29:23,880 --> 01:29:27,480
Biblically and historically, and
even legally, this is a strange

1401
01:29:27,480 --> 01:29:31,960
and arbitrary definition.
Today, 10 states in the USA,

1402
01:29:31,960 --> 01:29:36,480
namely Alabama, Colorado, Iowa,
Kansas, Montana, Oklahoma, Rhode

1403
01:29:36,920 --> 01:29:41,320
Island, South Carolina, Texas,
and Utah, don't require a couple

1404
01:29:41,320 --> 01:29:43,800
to obtain a marriage license to
be considered illegally and

1405
01:29:43,800 --> 01:29:46,440
lawfully married.
In these states, all that is

1406
01:29:46,440 --> 01:29:49,680
legally required for a couple is
to publicly say that they are

1407
01:29:49,680 --> 01:29:52,200
married to each other and to
cohabit with each other.

1408
01:29:52,880 --> 01:29:55,360
The legal term for such a
marriage is a common law

1409
01:29:55,360 --> 01:29:57,960
marriage.
Being born and raised LDS, when

1410
01:29:57,960 --> 01:30:00,000
I first learned about this fact
I was shocked.

1411
01:30:00,880 --> 01:30:03,120
But if you think about it, it
makes sense.

1412
01:30:03,440 --> 01:30:05,400
Marriage in the family predate
all government.

1413
01:30:05,640 --> 01:30:07,600
Adam and Eve didn't get
permission from the government

1414
01:30:07,960 --> 01:30:10,120
or a marriage license.
Like.

1415
01:30:10,840 --> 01:30:13,880
Hello.
OK so you might be thinking so

1416
01:30:13,880 --> 01:30:16,200
if a state issued marriage
license isn't a God ordained

1417
01:30:16,200 --> 01:30:19,640
requirement for a legitimate
marriage, surely at least a

1418
01:30:19,640 --> 01:30:21,400
religious ceremony is required
right?

1419
01:30:22,400 --> 01:30:25,280
So question, what came first,
the marriage of Adam and Eve or

1420
01:30:25,280 --> 01:30:26,600
the founding of the first
church?

1421
01:30:26,800 --> 01:30:29,720
What about cultures that don't
have organized religion involved

1422
01:30:29,720 --> 01:30:31,920
with marriage?
Does that make them all guilty

1423
01:30:31,920 --> 01:30:35,320
of adultery?
For example, among Native

1424
01:30:35,320 --> 01:30:37,680
Americans prior to European
colonization, government was a

1425
01:30:37,680 --> 01:30:39,920
very fluid and uncentralized
concept.

1426
01:30:40,320 --> 01:30:43,200
When a man and woman decided to
be married, they didn't ask the

1427
01:30:43,200 --> 01:30:47,400
chief or anybody to be married.
They for permission.

1428
01:30:47,400 --> 01:30:50,960
Like they just had religious.
I mean many tribes had religious

1429
01:30:50,960 --> 01:30:53,240
ceremonies that surrounded the
marriage to make it publicly

1430
01:30:53,240 --> 01:30:56,160
known that the woman and man
were starting a family.

1431
01:30:56,920 --> 01:31:01,680
But if a couple eloped, IE ran
off into the woods and came back

1432
01:31:01,680 --> 01:31:04,560
announcing that they were now
married, it was just accepted as

1433
01:31:04,560 --> 01:31:07,360
lawfully binding, as if it was
accompanied by the most

1434
01:31:07,360 --> 01:31:10,280
elaborate religious ceremony and
celebration.

1435
01:31:11,120 --> 01:31:15,840
Would these marriages be less
legitimate in God's eyes because

1436
01:31:15,840 --> 01:31:18,760
they lacked a government issued
paper, document or

1437
01:31:18,760 --> 01:31:21,520
ecclesiastical endorsement?
Absolutely not.

1438
01:31:23,200 --> 01:31:26,040
Scripturally speaking, I believe
it's self-evident that what

1439
01:31:26,040 --> 01:31:28,720
constitutes a legitimate
marriage in God's sight is along

1440
01:31:28,720 --> 01:31:30,640
the same lines as a common law
marriage.

1441
01:31:30,720 --> 01:31:34,960
That a woman not be married or
espoused to another living man,

1442
01:31:35,480 --> 01:31:37,520
that she and her husband
consider themselves married to

1443
01:31:37,520 --> 01:31:40,040
each other and are faithful to
another, and that they have

1444
01:31:40,080 --> 01:31:43,240
conjugal relations with each
other, nothing more or less.

1445
01:31:44,400 --> 01:31:48,400
Now there is a difference
between marriage and sealing.

1446
01:31:48,680 --> 01:31:52,600
OK, so this book is about
polygamy, the marriage.

1447
01:31:54,000 --> 01:31:57,760
As Mormons, we know that there
is much more to marriage than

1448
01:31:57,760 --> 01:32:00,640
just marriage.
It's it's about the sealing,

1449
01:32:00,720 --> 01:32:05,360
right?
So, but, but, but The thing is,

1450
01:32:06,040 --> 01:32:13,760
whether a marriage is sealed or
not doesn't matter if it it

1451
01:32:13,760 --> 01:32:16,760
doesn't change whether or not
it's a marriage or not, right?

1452
01:32:16,920 --> 01:32:20,200
So just because a marriage is
not sealed doesn't make it an

1453
01:32:20,200 --> 01:32:22,240
adultery.
I mean, you look at all of the

1454
01:32:22,240 --> 01:32:26,920
people who have been married
today and all throughout history

1455
01:32:27,560 --> 01:32:29,560
that didn't get it sealed by the
priesthood.

1456
01:32:30,480 --> 01:32:33,200
Are we ready?
Are we really, like serious?

1457
01:32:33,200 --> 01:32:36,360
Would would we?
Would anybody seriously consider

1458
01:32:36,680 --> 01:32:39,480
accusing all of those marriages
of being adultery?

1459
01:32:40,040 --> 01:32:42,160
No, because they will.
No, right?

1460
01:32:43,400 --> 01:32:47,400
So marriage is marriage if a
marriage, if a monogamous

1461
01:32:47,400 --> 01:32:49,720
marriage is a legitimate
marriage and acceptable in God's

1462
01:32:49,720 --> 01:32:54,720
sight by those qualifications
outlined above, why not a plural

1463
01:32:54,720 --> 01:32:57,760
marriage?
It absolutely is.

1464
01:32:58,160 --> 01:32:59,000
Yeah.
So.

1465
01:32:59,720 --> 01:33:03,960
So in Doctrine Covenant section
132, verse 15, the Scripture,

1466
01:33:03,960 --> 01:33:06,840
this revelation does clarify
that if a man marry him a wife

1467
01:33:06,840 --> 01:33:10,080
in the world and he marry her
not by me nor by my word and the

1468
01:33:10,080 --> 01:33:12,840
covenant with her, so long as he
is in the world and she with

1469
01:33:12,840 --> 01:33:14,480
him.
Their covenant and marriage are

1470
01:33:14,480 --> 01:33:16,880
not a force when they are dead
and when they are out of the

1471
01:33:16,880 --> 01:33:19,280
world.
Therefore they are not bound by

1472
01:33:19,280 --> 01:33:21,000
any law when they are out of the
world.

1473
01:33:21,560 --> 01:33:24,480
So if you want a marriage to
last beyond this world into

1474
01:33:24,480 --> 01:33:27,480
eternity, it must meet
additional requirements.

1475
01:33:28,320 --> 01:33:31,240
Just this applies to monogamous
marriages, applies to polygamous

1476
01:33:31,240 --> 01:33:35,320
marriages.
So just like so if if a

1477
01:33:35,320 --> 01:33:38,240
monogamous marriage isn't sealed
for eternity, it doesn't make

1478
01:33:38,240 --> 01:33:40,760
the marriage adulterous.
If a polygamous marriage even

1479
01:33:40,760 --> 01:33:43,280
isn't sealed for eternity, it
doesn't make that marriage

1480
01:33:43,280 --> 01:33:46,000
relationship adulterous.
Because here's the thing dude.

1481
01:33:46,240 --> 01:33:51,320
There are polygamous groups,
Mormon polygamous groups, who

1482
01:33:51,360 --> 01:33:56,600
think that if you get married
not by their dude that you're

1483
01:33:56,600 --> 01:33:58,480
adult, then then you're an
adulterer.

1484
01:33:59,680 --> 01:34:03,280
That's like the LDS church would
accuse anybody who is married

1485
01:34:03,800 --> 01:34:06,680
without their priesthood and
authority of adultery.

1486
01:34:07,080 --> 01:34:09,440
There are polygamous and the and
the like.

1487
01:34:09,440 --> 01:34:12,720
What's worse, stupidity or
hypocrisy?

1488
01:34:13,560 --> 01:34:19,360
Like I, I think God has just AI
feel like God detests hypocrisy

1489
01:34:19,640 --> 01:34:22,960
above any other type of sin out
there.

1490
01:34:23,160 --> 01:34:25,440
Like hypocrisy just really is a
problem.

1491
01:34:25,880 --> 01:34:28,880
And so like as fundamentalist,
we have to be real careful that

1492
01:34:28,880 --> 01:34:32,280
we don't fall into the same
erroneous thinking as the LDS

1493
01:34:32,720 --> 01:34:38,080
church has.
So if so, just moving on and

1494
01:34:38,080 --> 01:34:40,320
some of my notes.
If a marriage is to last beyond

1495
01:34:40,320 --> 01:34:42,560
this world into eternity, it
must be additional requirements

1496
01:34:42,720 --> 01:34:45,320
applies to monogamous and
polygamous marriages.

1497
01:34:46,680 --> 01:34:48,960
If a polygamous marriage isn't
sealed for eternity, it doesn't

1498
01:34:48,960 --> 01:34:50,600
make that marriage relationship
adulterous.

1499
01:34:50,600 --> 01:34:54,760
So, so if a monogamous couple,
one is faithful to each other,

1500
01:34:55,040 --> 01:34:59,600
two, builds a celestial quality
marriage relationship, and three

1501
01:34:59,600 --> 01:35:02,440
desires and is worthy to receive
the sealing ordinance by proper

1502
01:35:02,440 --> 01:35:06,000
authority, yet hasn't had that
opportunity to receive the

1503
01:35:06,000 --> 01:35:08,360
ordinance.
Maybe they were raised Baptist

1504
01:35:08,360 --> 01:35:14,680
or Catholic or whatever, or
maybe they just live in a group

1505
01:35:14,720 --> 01:35:17,280
that has lost the priesthood.
You know, I think that's a very

1506
01:35:17,880 --> 01:35:21,560
real thing too.
Would the God you worship

1507
01:35:21,560 --> 01:35:24,760
deprive that couple, that
monocamous couple of the

1508
01:35:24,760 --> 01:35:27,440
blessing of eternal marriage and
damned them to singlehood, apart

1509
01:35:27,440 --> 01:35:31,040
from each other for eternity?
Or would the God that you

1510
01:35:31,040 --> 01:35:35,040
worship provide them with that
opportunity, either in this life

1511
01:35:35,040 --> 01:35:39,280
or the next, to comply with the
ordinances if they're worthy in

1512
01:35:39,280 --> 01:35:44,440
every other way?
So that's applied to A and the

1513
01:35:44,440 --> 01:35:48,080
crux of the matter, and this is
maybe primarily directed more to

1514
01:35:48,080 --> 01:35:51,480
the LDS audience here.
If a polygamous man and his

1515
01:35:51,480 --> 01:35:55,720
wives are not faithful to each
other, one, or excuse me, are

1516
01:35:55,720 --> 01:35:59,160
faithful to each other two,
build a celestial quality

1517
01:35:59,160 --> 01:36:02,000
marriage relationship among each
other.

1518
01:36:03,440 --> 01:36:06,240
Three desire and are worthy to
receive the ceiling ordinance by

1519
01:36:06,240 --> 01:36:09,480
proper authority 4 but yet
haven't had that opportunity to

1520
01:36:09,480 --> 01:36:11,720
receive that ordinance by proper
authority in this lifetime.

1521
01:36:13,040 --> 01:36:16,280
Because even if you're LDS, if
you think that it has to have

1522
01:36:16,320 --> 01:36:18,440
have the proper priesthood
authority to be to be

1523
01:36:18,440 --> 01:36:22,360
legitimate, it still doesn't
make it.

1524
01:36:22,600 --> 01:36:28,080
Would the God that you worship
deprive that plural family of

1525
01:36:28,080 --> 01:36:31,000
the blessing of eternal life and
damned them to singlehood apart

1526
01:36:31,000 --> 01:36:34,840
from each other for eternity?
Or would God provide them with

1527
01:36:34,840 --> 01:36:38,320
an opportunity either in this
life or the next to comply with

1528
01:36:38,320 --> 01:36:40,400
the ordinances if they're worthy
in every other way?

1529
01:36:41,640 --> 01:36:45,720
So a plural marriage
relationship, even if it's not

1530
01:36:45,720 --> 01:36:48,560
sealed by proper authority or or
entered into with a priesthood

1531
01:36:48,560 --> 01:36:52,040
ordinance, it can't be called
adultery by any scriptural or

1532
01:36:52,040 --> 01:36:57,000
rational definition of the term.
I, I just, I think I've just

1533
01:36:57,000 --> 01:37:01,480
proven that.
And there's a scripture in the,

1534
01:37:01,480 --> 01:37:05,520
in the Old Testament, Exodus
chapter 20, it well, of course

1535
01:37:05,520 --> 01:37:07,400
we know the 10 commandments.
Thou shalt not bear false

1536
01:37:07,400 --> 01:37:10,200
witness against thy neighbor.
But then in Deuteronomy, it

1537
01:37:10,200 --> 01:37:14,640
actually spells out that if you
make false so it and the judges

1538
01:37:14,640 --> 01:37:17,120
shall make diligent inquisition.
And behold, if the witness be a

1539
01:37:17,120 --> 01:37:19,800
false witness and have testified
falsely against his brother,

1540
01:37:20,120 --> 01:37:23,640
then shall you do unto him as he
had thought to have done unto

1541
01:37:23,640 --> 01:37:27,080
his brother.
So shall thou put the evil away

1542
01:37:27,080 --> 01:37:29,600
from among you.
That's Deuteronomy chapter 19,

1543
01:37:29,600 --> 01:37:34,040
verses 18 and 19.
OK, so what's?

1544
01:37:34,120 --> 01:37:36,840
So basically, if you make a
false accusation, what's the

1545
01:37:37,080 --> 01:37:40,720
penalty?
It's whatever the penalty was

1546
01:37:40,720 --> 01:37:43,640
going to be for the sin that
you're making the accusation.

1547
01:37:44,440 --> 01:37:46,040
Right.
What is the penalty?

1548
01:37:46,080 --> 01:37:48,040
What is the biblical penalty for
adultery?

1549
01:37:48,040 --> 01:37:53,560
Or, yeah, for adultery.
That man that committeth

1550
01:37:53,560 --> 01:37:56,120
adultery with another man's
wife, even he that committeth

1551
01:37:56,120 --> 01:37:58,520
adultery with his neighbor's
wife, the adulterer and the

1552
01:37:58,520 --> 01:38:00,800
adulteress shall surely be put
to death.

1553
01:38:02,000 --> 01:38:06,320
So the biblical penalty for
adultery is death, and therefore

1554
01:38:06,320 --> 01:38:09,320
the biblical penalty for falsely
accusing anyone of adultery is

1555
01:38:09,320 --> 01:38:14,440
death for the accusers.
So this is a very serious thing.

1556
01:38:16,280 --> 01:38:19,160
So of course we don't.
I'm not suggesting that we, you

1557
01:38:19,160 --> 01:38:22,200
know, start killing anybody who
falsely accuses people of

1558
01:38:22,200 --> 01:38:25,480
committing adultery, but I mean,
it's and our governments like

1559
01:38:25,480 --> 01:38:27,960
that just would not fly.
Our governments don't enforce

1560
01:38:27,960 --> 01:38:35,120
the biblical law, but I believe
that God is interested in our

1561
01:38:35,120 --> 01:38:38,280
day and he's watching.
And, and so even if our

1562
01:38:38,280 --> 01:38:42,000
government doesn't enforce the
biblical laws, I think that

1563
01:38:42,400 --> 01:38:46,240
they're there for a reason.
And Christ himself warned that

1564
01:38:46,240 --> 01:38:48,760
with whatever judgement you
judge, you shall be judged.

1565
01:38:49,080 --> 01:38:54,560
Matthews Chapter 7, verse 2.
So in other words, wise people

1566
01:38:54,800 --> 01:38:57,960
would be very reluctant to judge
the relationship choices of

1567
01:38:58,240 --> 01:39:03,280
sincere consenting adults.
And that goes for LDS Mormons.

1568
01:39:03,280 --> 01:39:07,440
That goes for, you know,
fundamentalists who think that

1569
01:39:07,440 --> 01:39:11,440
only their guys priesthood is
legitimate.

1570
01:39:12,440 --> 01:39:14,360
Like this just goes all the way
across.

1571
01:39:15,920 --> 01:39:23,160
The last thing I want to cover
is Jacob chapter 2, because this

1572
01:39:23,160 --> 01:39:29,960
is the only scriptural place
that that, that this idea of

1573
01:39:29,960 --> 01:39:37,520
monogamy is, is even a thing.
So it's interesting that the the

1574
01:39:37,520 --> 01:39:41,720
word chastity is very rare.
It it only appears like three

1575
01:39:41,720 --> 01:39:45,360
times in the New Testament in
the King James Version from our

1576
01:39:45,400 --> 01:39:49,360
our modern kind of puritanical
world Western worldview, the

1577
01:39:49,360 --> 01:39:52,640
word chastity is almost
exclusively tied to the sexual

1578
01:39:52,640 --> 01:39:54,640
connotation of virginity or
celibacy.

1579
01:39:55,040 --> 01:39:58,160
But from a Hebrew perspective,
the Hebrew worldview has much

1580
01:39:58,160 --> 01:40:05,560
more context and nuance.
So the the the in verse 27 of

1581
01:40:05,560 --> 01:40:09,440
Jacob chapter 2, we find that
the restriction from practicing

1582
01:40:09,440 --> 01:40:12,560
polygamy was actually limited to
the people present at the

1583
01:40:12,560 --> 01:40:14,200
meeting where Jacob is
addressing them.

1584
01:40:14,800 --> 01:40:17,600
Because he says, But wherefore,
my brethren, hear me hearken to

1585
01:40:17,600 --> 01:40:19,480
the word of the Lord?
There shall not any man among

1586
01:40:19,480 --> 01:40:23,080
you have, save it be one wife
and concubines.

1587
01:40:23,080 --> 01:40:25,400
He shall have none.
So to apply this Scripture

1588
01:40:25,400 --> 01:40:28,960
beyond this intended scope is
just untextually supported.

1589
01:40:30,640 --> 01:40:34,040
In verse 30, Jacob includes the
caveat.

1590
01:40:34,440 --> 01:40:36,800
For if I will, saith the Lord of
hosts, phrase up seed unto me, I

1591
01:40:36,800 --> 01:40:39,640
will command my people to live
it, otherwise they shall hearken

1592
01:40:39,640 --> 01:40:41,880
unto these things.
Can you think of a single other

1593
01:40:41,880 --> 01:40:44,440
commandment God's ever given
where he's included a caveat or

1594
01:40:44,440 --> 01:40:47,200
exception?
Like the fact he did so in this

1595
01:40:47,200 --> 01:40:52,480
case is pretty much proof that
monogamy is not an eternal

1596
01:40:52,480 --> 01:40:54,400
Prince of truth or a natural
state.

1597
01:40:54,400 --> 01:40:57,680
It was a commandment specific to
this limited group of Nephites,

1598
01:40:58,000 --> 01:41:00,720
and it was required for them to
obey it until it was rescinded,

1599
01:41:01,000 --> 01:41:02,760
IE until God commanded
otherwise.

1600
01:41:04,880 --> 01:41:07,040
Right?
Also also worth mentioning in

1601
01:41:07,040 --> 01:41:12,920
this verse chapter 30 if for
anybody who might have had the

1602
01:41:12,920 --> 01:41:14,920
thinking like I mean this is how
I was raised.

1603
01:41:14,920 --> 01:41:17,680
I was raised LDS and and so
anyone who thinks that

1604
01:41:18,200 --> 01:41:21,280
complegamy is the same thing as
adultery unless commanded by

1605
01:41:21,280 --> 01:41:23,400
God.
Let's try a word replacement and

1606
01:41:23,400 --> 01:41:26,200
see what happens for if I will
say if the Lord of hosts raise

1607
01:41:26,200 --> 01:41:29,640
up seed unto me, I will command
my people to commit adultery.

1608
01:41:31,440 --> 01:41:33,480
Otherwise they shall harden
these things.

1609
01:41:34,000 --> 01:41:36,200
Like sometimes God can give
commandments that defy our

1610
01:41:36,200 --> 01:41:38,200
limited wisdom and and
understanding.

1611
01:41:39,120 --> 01:41:42,400
But can you point to a single
instance in all of scripture

1612
01:41:42,400 --> 01:41:45,680
where God commanded a man to
violate a moral absolute?

1613
01:41:46,680 --> 01:41:50,640
Adultery is a moral absolute.
The God of Abraham, Jacob don't

1614
01:41:50,880 --> 01:41:53,680
doesn't command anyone to
violate a moral absolute.

1615
01:41:53,680 --> 01:41:57,440
Therefore, Jacob too actually
proves that monogamy is not a

1616
01:41:57,440 --> 01:42:02,400
moral absolute.
Very good, I like it.

1617
01:42:04,760 --> 01:42:09,240
And then the last thing point on
this is that repeatedly

1618
01:42:09,240 --> 01:42:10,960
throughout the Book of Mormon,
the authors note that the

1619
01:42:10,960 --> 01:42:12,760
Nephites obeyed the Law of
Moses.

1620
01:42:13,080 --> 01:42:16,160
What almost all modern Mormons
forget is the fact that the Law

1621
01:42:16,160 --> 01:42:19,240
of Moses requires polygamy under
certain circumstances.

1622
01:42:19,680 --> 01:42:22,000
Right.
The Jacobs restriction of the

1623
01:42:22,000 --> 01:42:25,640
specific group of Nephites to
monogamy is a singular anomaly,

1624
01:42:25,640 --> 01:42:29,120
an exception to the rule of
polygamy, which was the natural

1625
01:42:29,120 --> 01:42:31,840
state for all other people who
live the Law of Moses.

1626
01:42:32,360 --> 01:42:35,640
Interesting.
Oh, that's a juicy nugget to

1627
01:42:35,640 --> 01:42:38,200
chew on.
You know, because I never made,

1628
01:42:38,200 --> 01:42:41,360
I never made the connection with
polygamy to the law of Moses.

1629
01:42:41,800 --> 01:42:45,720
But they are instructed to keep
that many times in the Book of

1630
01:42:45,720 --> 01:42:48,640
Mormon.
And that would be, that would be

1631
01:42:48,640 --> 01:42:52,320
one of those things.
Yeah, until of course, until it

1632
01:42:52,320 --> 01:42:55,480
Christ comes and then it says
the law of Moses is done away in

1633
01:42:55,480 --> 01:42:57,600
me and it should not expedite
you should live anymore.

1634
01:42:57,960 --> 01:43:02,040
But up to that point, these guys
were some of the best Jews in

1635
01:43:02,960 --> 01:43:05,680
in, you know, outside of Judea,
right?

1636
01:43:06,000 --> 01:43:08,560
You know that they were very
faithful at living the law of

1637
01:43:08,560 --> 01:43:13,680
Moses.
Yeah, so puts a new connotation

1638
01:43:13,680 --> 01:43:15,480
on it to those who like to use
Jacob too.

1639
01:43:15,480 --> 01:43:19,160
To beat, beat Go got plural
marriage over the head.

1640
01:43:19,720 --> 01:43:21,360
Well, and the other thing I
don't have.

1641
01:43:21,480 --> 01:43:23,040
Maybe I can find the reference
real quick.

1642
01:43:23,040 --> 01:43:29,320
Do you remember what Lehi says?
The the point when God LED

1643
01:43:29,320 --> 01:43:31,920
Lehigh and his family out of
Jerusalem?

1644
01:43:32,080 --> 01:43:35,640
You remember why?
Do I remember what?

1645
01:43:35,640 --> 01:43:37,440
Sorry.
What, Why?

1646
01:43:37,680 --> 01:43:42,080
Why did Lehigh say God was
instructing him to take his

1647
01:43:42,080 --> 01:43:45,840
family out of Jerusalem?
Wasn't it because he was going

1648
01:43:45,840 --> 01:43:49,080
to be killed?
Well, that was definitely part

1649
01:43:49,080 --> 01:43:51,160
of it.
But this the the verse and I'll

1650
01:43:51,240 --> 01:43:55,280
when I say I think you'll
recognize it, he says to raise

1651
01:43:55,280 --> 01:43:57,520
up a righteous seed.
Oh, that's right.

1652
01:43:57,600 --> 01:44:01,600
OK, yeah, Yep.
And what?

1653
01:44:01,600 --> 01:44:04,040
Does Jacob chapter 2 verse 30
say?

1654
01:44:06,600 --> 01:44:10,280
To raise up a righteous seed.
If I will say that the Lord of

1655
01:44:10,280 --> 01:44:12,600
hosts raise up seed unto me, I
will command my people,

1656
01:44:12,680 --> 01:44:14,160
otherwise they shall hearken
unto these things.

1657
01:44:19,080 --> 01:44:21,880
Yeah, no, no, it's definitely
there.

1658
01:44:21,920 --> 01:44:25,320
I did an episode with Jacob the
Dream that really, really

1659
01:44:25,320 --> 01:44:30,360
showed, you know it, there's a
lot of implications there that

1660
01:44:30,680 --> 01:44:34,480
polygamy was going on in the
Book of Mormon as we should

1661
01:44:34,480 --> 01:44:39,040
expect to see, right?
Even some stuff that that showed

1662
01:44:39,040 --> 01:44:41,600
that Lehigh was most likely a
polygamist.

1663
01:44:42,080 --> 01:44:44,280
I can't remember what those were
off the top of my head.

1664
01:44:44,280 --> 01:44:45,720
I have to go back and listen
but.

1665
01:44:46,280 --> 01:44:48,640
So I, I can tell you, I can tell
you that.

1666
01:44:48,640 --> 01:44:54,080
So Lehigh, remember when the,
they're on the boat, they're,

1667
01:44:54,120 --> 01:44:59,680
they're coming across this ocean
and they like Lehman and Lehmi

1668
01:44:59,680 --> 01:45:06,280
will just go stupid and they tie
the you know, Nephi and, and,

1669
01:45:06,280 --> 01:45:14,440
and, and Nephi is describing his
mother and it says and my mother

1670
01:45:15,280 --> 01:45:19,360
and he says my parents.
So referring to Lehigh and

1671
01:45:19,360 --> 01:45:23,600
Soraya were weighed down with
their Gray hairs almost unto

1672
01:45:23,600 --> 01:45:26,080
death, right?
It was, it was, it was.

1673
01:45:26,160 --> 01:45:31,720
And and then it says, and Jacob
and Joseph, their mother did

1674
01:45:31,720 --> 01:45:34,960
suffer exceedingly.
That's right, because she, you

1675
01:45:34,960 --> 01:45:39,080
couldn't give them milk to
nurse, right?

1676
01:45:39,480 --> 01:45:42,560
Like, like that's kind of that's
pretty.

1677
01:45:42,560 --> 01:45:45,440
I mean, it doesn't say it, but
it's pretty darn.

1678
01:45:45,560 --> 01:45:47,400
It's pretty darn conclusive,
isn't it?

1679
01:45:47,880 --> 01:45:50,760
Yeah.
No, no, I think it, I think it's

1680
01:45:50,760 --> 01:45:54,000
there throughout, certainly in
Mormonism, obviously more than

1681
01:45:54,000 --> 01:45:56,840
132.
It's in, it's in the Old

1682
01:45:56,840 --> 01:45:59,120
Testament, it's in the New
Testament.

1683
01:46:00,840 --> 01:46:06,240
It's it's it really is kind of
ubiquitous within the the

1684
01:46:07,160 --> 01:46:11,960
Christian Hebraic tradition,
whether we want it to be or not.

1685
01:46:12,320 --> 01:46:16,960
It's only our our our modern
sensibilities, I think that make

1686
01:46:16,960 --> 01:46:19,360
it seem so icky.
Yeah.

1687
01:46:20,280 --> 01:46:27,880
And I again, there's there's.
So much good like by their

1688
01:46:27,880 --> 01:46:33,560
fruits you shall know them.
And so, yeah, Warren Jeffs, his

1689
01:46:33,560 --> 01:46:36,480
fruits expose him as an evil
SOB, right?

1690
01:46:36,560 --> 01:46:42,080
And but the sad thing is because
he was because everybody doesn't

1691
01:46:42,080 --> 01:46:44,320
like polygamy already.
And he was do practicing

1692
01:46:44,320 --> 01:46:49,120
polygamy, it kind of gives
everybody a pass to equate.

1693
01:46:49,720 --> 01:46:53,800
And so like he did such a
disservice to to truth and to

1694
01:46:53,800 --> 01:46:58,120
righteousness.
And, and, and the other thing is

1695
01:46:58,120 --> 01:47:06,360
with like with these you, you
look at a guy.

1696
01:47:06,600 --> 01:47:10,000
Well, I mean you and there's
other guys that we know.

1697
01:47:10,040 --> 01:47:14,960
I'm not going to drop any names,
but I know, I, I personally know

1698
01:47:15,600 --> 01:47:18,720
dozens.
Some of the best men alive

1699
01:47:18,720 --> 01:47:21,640
breathe, drawing breath,
breathing oxygen right now.

1700
01:47:22,080 --> 01:47:24,240
And they are living this
principle.

1701
01:47:24,760 --> 01:47:29,360
And so you look by their fruits,
you shall know them well, Yeah.

1702
01:47:29,720 --> 01:47:33,920
And if the fruit is good, let's
let's give credit where it's due

1703
01:47:33,920 --> 01:47:38,240
And, and so like these are these
are really important things to

1704
01:47:38,240 --> 01:47:43,000
consider.
Joseph Smith in he gave a speech

1705
01:47:43,000 --> 01:47:46,520
on August 27th, 1843.
He says those who limit the

1706
01:47:46,520 --> 01:47:49,520
designs of God as concerted by
the Grand Council of Heaven

1707
01:47:49,680 --> 01:47:51,440
cannot obtain the knowledge of
God.

1708
01:47:51,920 --> 01:47:54,920
And I do not know, but I may say
they will drink in the damnation

1709
01:47:54,920 --> 01:47:57,880
of their souls.
All those who are disposed to

1710
01:47:57,880 --> 01:48:00,840
set up stakes for the Almighty
will come short of the glory of

1711
01:48:00,840 --> 01:48:04,120
God to become a joint heir of
the air of the Son.

1712
01:48:04,120 --> 01:48:06,160
A man must put away all his
traditions.

1713
01:48:07,600 --> 01:48:12,320
We look at so many traditions
like till marriage, till death

1714
01:48:12,320 --> 01:48:14,880
do us part.
You look at the other traditions

1715
01:48:14,960 --> 01:48:21,400
of people infallibility and you
look and like as Mormons, we're

1716
01:48:21,680 --> 01:48:26,400
like, there's a temptation to be
like, man, those guys are so

1717
01:48:26,800 --> 01:48:30,840
dumb and so ignorant and ill
informed and all this and we,

1718
01:48:30,840 --> 01:48:35,120
and, and yet what traditions
have we not given up?

1719
01:48:35,640 --> 01:48:40,240
And I would say this tradition
of marriage is a huge, massive,

1720
01:48:40,240 --> 01:48:45,480
massive one.
We need to look at, we need to

1721
01:48:45,480 --> 01:48:49,200
revisit our traditions,
including how, what that what's

1722
01:48:49,200 --> 01:48:55,680
a legitimate marriage look like.
And we need to just realize that

1723
01:48:55,680 --> 01:48:59,720
these are the things that God
expects of us.

1724
01:49:01,400 --> 01:49:04,640
And if we want to progress and
be like my God, we have to put

1725
01:49:04,640 --> 01:49:07,760
away all of the things that are
ungod like within us.

1726
01:49:08,360 --> 01:49:14,320
Absolutely.
I'm a guy who likes living in

1727
01:49:14,320 --> 01:49:17,440
the time I'm living in
genuinely, right.

1728
01:49:20,040 --> 01:49:23,920
I enjoyed moving without pulling
a hand cart or riding in the

1729
01:49:23,920 --> 01:49:26,240
back of a wagon.
I really did.

1730
01:49:26,680 --> 01:49:29,680
Air conditioning is awesome,
right?

1731
01:49:30,840 --> 01:49:37,520
Having said that, sometimes we
can think that we're so far

1732
01:49:37,520 --> 01:49:42,560
advanced that we trick ourselves
out of the most basic of things,

1733
01:49:43,560 --> 01:49:48,200
right?
I've always said having as many

1734
01:49:48,200 --> 01:49:53,280
kids as I've had, I firmly
believe you could stick a group

1735
01:49:53,280 --> 01:49:56,480
of boys and a group of girls on
an island and there's

1736
01:49:56,480 --> 01:50:00,520
predictable outcomes.
The girls will pick flowers and

1737
01:50:00,520 --> 01:50:03,000
the boys will hit each other
with sticks and laugh.

1738
01:50:03,840 --> 01:50:06,640
That's just all there is to.
It and maybe throw rocks at the

1739
01:50:06,640 --> 01:50:10,760
girls.
Right, yes, yes, by violin.

1740
01:50:11,440 --> 01:50:15,440
Right, right, right.
It's, it's just kind of a, a

1741
01:50:15,440 --> 01:50:22,240
natural outgrowth of, of things,
but also our, our, the way we

1742
01:50:22,240 --> 01:50:28,280
conduct our families, the way
we, we define marriage.

1743
01:50:30,920 --> 01:50:37,960
We're trying to, we're trying to
put in a square peg into a round

1744
01:50:37,960 --> 01:50:42,680
hole and it doesn't fit and it
doesn't work and it creates

1745
01:50:42,680 --> 01:50:45,840
anxiety and it creates all sorts
of problems.

1746
01:50:45,840 --> 01:50:48,920
And again, I'm not saying that
plural marriage is for

1747
01:50:48,920 --> 01:50:51,480
everybody.
So if, if you have those

1748
01:50:51,480 --> 01:50:55,160
feelings, I'm not saying that
that plural marriage is going to

1749
01:50:55,160 --> 01:50:58,920
solve all those.
And if you don't feel that call,

1750
01:50:59,280 --> 01:51:02,640
I'll be the first one to say
don't do it right?

1751
01:51:02,640 --> 01:51:05,080
Don't do it.
If you don't feel called to it,

1752
01:51:05,200 --> 01:51:08,680
do not do this.
And if your, if your first

1753
01:51:08,680 --> 01:51:11,480
marriage isn't healthy, do not
do this.

1754
01:51:11,800 --> 01:51:15,200
Adding, adding another marriage
thinking we'll fix the first

1755
01:51:15,200 --> 01:51:17,760
one.
That is dumb.

1756
01:51:17,960 --> 01:51:20,640
I, I have no, no other words for
it, right?

1757
01:51:21,280 --> 01:51:29,440
But for those that do it, it is
a call back in some ways to

1758
01:51:29,440 --> 01:51:34,680
certain, I don't know, factory
default settings.

1759
01:51:35,600 --> 01:51:41,800
And, and for those of us who
feel that, I think it's

1760
01:51:41,800 --> 01:51:45,600
incumbent upon us that are
living it or are in favor of it

1761
01:51:46,240 --> 01:51:50,040
to, to, to be a little more bold
and just saying, you know what?

1762
01:51:50,040 --> 01:51:56,200
My family is every bit as
legitimate as yours and stand

1763
01:51:56,200 --> 01:51:58,800
your ground on that.
Nobody can take that from you.

1764
01:51:59,280 --> 01:52:03,000
They can try, they can rail.
I mean, they can do all sorts

1765
01:52:03,000 --> 01:52:05,760
of, you know, talking and
whatever.

1766
01:52:06,240 --> 01:52:10,520
But the end of the day, if it
makes you happy, I mean, that's

1767
01:52:10,520 --> 01:52:13,680
what it's about.
And I believe it's divinely

1768
01:52:13,680 --> 01:52:17,240
sanctioned.
It's certainly been a blessing

1769
01:52:17,240 --> 01:52:21,040
in my life.
I, I'll be honest, as a guy, I

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pray every day and I work every
day that I might be worthy of my

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wife.
And that's just the truth of it.

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01:52:28,720 --> 01:52:33,480
And if there's one common thing
that I've seen is that the guys

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who do this and do it well often
kind of feel some similar

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01:52:38,120 --> 01:52:43,760
feelings.
And it takes work, but it's

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01:52:43,760 --> 01:52:48,120
worth it 100%.
But anyway, Taylor, what do you

1776
01:52:48,120 --> 01:52:51,680
got, man?
Oh bro, that was, I think

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01:52:51,920 --> 01:52:53,320
enough.
There's Part 2.

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I'm tired, it's late.
I think I've said my piece.

1779
01:52:57,360 --> 01:53:01,640
I just, I guess I hope that it,
you know, it's CS Lewis's like,

1780
01:53:01,920 --> 01:53:06,480
you know, good logic must exist,
if for no other reason than to

1781
01:53:06,520 --> 01:53:09,200
answer bad logic.
I think there's a lot of bad

1782
01:53:09,280 --> 01:53:15,040
logic out there maligning and
just unjustly vilifying this

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01:53:15,040 --> 01:53:18,640
sacred and honorable practice.
And so I hope that what we've

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01:53:18,640 --> 01:53:25,720
covered tonight and, and and
Part 1 can help those of us who

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01:53:25,720 --> 01:53:28,560
do have this testimony to be,
like you said, a little more

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01:53:28,560 --> 01:53:34,960
bold and, and not and to hold
our heads high and to just

1787
01:53:34,960 --> 01:53:38,240
embrace it, own it.
This is this is our gospel.

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01:53:38,240 --> 01:53:42,640
This is this is what we claim to
have a testimony is truth of

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01:53:42,640 --> 01:53:44,720
God.
So let's start acting like it.

1790
01:53:44,800 --> 01:53:49,800
Let's not be wussy about it.
Absolutely dude.

1791
01:53:49,840 --> 01:53:51,480
Good stuff as always.
Let's.

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01:53:52,640 --> 01:53:55,600
Let's bless as many women and
children as we are reasonably

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01:53:55,600 --> 01:53:56,920
capable of.
That's right.

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01:53:58,400 --> 01:54:00,640
Absolutely, dude.
Good stuff.

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01:54:01,160 --> 01:54:04,200
Name of the book again was The
Great Omission by Clyde

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01:54:04,280 --> 01:54:05,480
Pilkington.
Is that right?

1797
01:54:06,280 --> 01:54:10,120
That is correct.
And it's available on Amazon or

1798
01:54:10,120 --> 01:54:11,800
you can just Google.
I think there's if you wanted

1799
01:54:11,800 --> 01:54:13,800
bulk orders, there's that
available as well.

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01:54:13,800 --> 01:54:18,520
So Clyde Elkington, Junior.
Yep, and I and I got a link on

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01:54:18,520 --> 01:54:22,200
the first episode to the Amazon
page, so I'll I'll throw that on

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01:54:22,200 --> 01:54:23,960
there.
Again, I've never met the man,

1803
01:54:23,960 --> 01:54:25,480
but he's got to thank me at some
point.

1804
01:54:25,480 --> 01:54:28,360
Just a little letter saying
thanks for pimping my book bro.

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01:54:28,720 --> 01:54:31,160
That's all so.
Hey, we need to work that out in

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01:54:31,160 --> 01:54:33,080
advance, Dave.
What were we thinking?

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01:54:33,360 --> 01:54:37,080
I know, I know.
I mean, look, I mean, don't get

1808
01:54:37,080 --> 01:54:41,840
me wrong, this podcast has
netted about 300 bucks.

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01:54:41,840 --> 01:54:45,160
I'm just saying, you know,
Clyde, you, if you're out there,

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01:54:45,160 --> 01:54:47,680
if you're listening, help a
brother out.

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01:54:47,680 --> 01:54:50,080
That's all I'm saying.
You, you won't.

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01:54:50,720 --> 01:54:53,800
But you know, really if, if, if
I could meet the guy, just shake

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01:54:53,800 --> 01:54:56,680
his hand because I think it's a
great, a great book that he's

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01:54:56,680 --> 01:54:58,960
put together.
And, and dude, he did his

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01:54:58,960 --> 01:55:00,800
homework, right.
All those footnotes.

1816
01:55:01,400 --> 01:55:05,280
Dude did his homework.
So anyway, all right, dude.

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01:55:05,320 --> 01:55:08,320
Well, that was good stuff.
Oh yeah.

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01:55:09,080 --> 01:55:10,360
All right.
Well, thank you soon.

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01:55:11,040 --> 01:55:12,160
All right.
Bye everybody.

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The.